Assessment in the morning

Firefly123
Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
Can't sleep fell sick have my assessment tomorrow morning be glad when it's over with my anxiety is at an all time high. It's at home so not like I have to get there. Would count shep but its to cold in the field x

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  • JESSABBY
    JESSABBY Community member Posts: 4 Listener
    Goodluck for your assessment.. 
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Community member Posts: 6,283 Championing
    Hello @Firefly123   Please can I wish you all the best a positive outcome.

    Some little tips, have anxiety.

    Before you go out have a good breakfast Porridge or Eggs.

    Calm music Classic FM. Drink cold water , deep breathing.

    Do you have any support worker for the attending of your assessment?

    Or any one supporting you.

    Speaking on your behalf.  If you need to.

    Try to be thinking positive clear precise thoughts, questions take your time.

    I used still do bring a bottle of water, then have a sip while thinking of the answer.

    I do know to reassure you, had lots of these.

    Had more positive outcomes then negative ones.

    Please contact me  anytime after wards, be a pleasure supporting you.

    If I can offer compassion and empathy.  Some one to talk things over.

    As I have mental health myself know right now what you experiencing.

    Please take care best wishes in my prayers and thoughts.

    @thespiceman




  • Chloe_Scope
    Chloe_Scope Scope Posts: 10,511 Championing
    Hi @Firefly123, I really hope the assessment goes okay!
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    Thank yoo all. No one came I called them and they said call back in a few days and they might know why. 
    @thespiceman thanks for the tips. No I don't have any one supporting me I do have 4 young adult children 3 of whom have autism and other complex needs. So we manage the best we can. X
  • Chloe_Scope
    Chloe_Scope Scope Posts: 10,511 Championing
    Sorry they didn't turn up @Firefly123! I hope they are able to get back in touch soon.
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    Thanks @Chloe_Scope all that stress i guess I will have to wait and see what they say and no doubt get a new appointment x
  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Community member Posts: 6,283 Championing
    Hello @Firefly123   Sorry to hear assessment cancelled.

    Please if I can suggest the following for your mental health.

    https://www.richmondfellowship.org.uk.

    https://www.mind.org.uk.

    https://www.rethink.org.

    Anxiety offer a lot of guidance with any of the issues.

    Offer support advice help here on your assessment.  Attend and give information, support on wellbeing, meds, sleep anything else.

    Including diet and nutrition.

    Hope that helps.

    Please keep in touch.

    Please take care.

    @thespiceman


  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Community member Posts: 59,145 Championing
    As no one came today for the assessment i'd advise you to ring DWP as soon as possible and tell them that no one came. I've heard of this happening before and they've actually gone to the wrong house and reported that no one was in the property when they arrived. If this happens it could cause problems and the health assessment providers could send your file back to DWP with a failure to attend.  To protect yourself then please ring DWP and tell them what's happened today.
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    Ah thanks @poppy123456 I did not think of that I did call capita but will call dwp now x
  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Community member Posts: 59,145 Championing
    You're welcome, I just want you to cover all areas because i know exactly what they are like.
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    Yes it's been since the end of July one thing after another so better covering all. Thank you @poppy123456
  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Community member Posts: 16,371 Championing
    I'm so sorry to read your home assessment today was a non-event @ Firefly123. I hope you get a decent night's sleep tonight. Please let us know how you get on with ringing DWP. Take care.
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    They just said I should contact capita I had already done so but at least the DWP are aware. Just have to wait again I think ? 
  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 11,558 Online Community Programme Lead
    Really sorry it didn't go ahead and no one is able to tell you what's going on @Firefly123. I hope you hear soon and aren't waiting too long.
  • Firefly123
    Firefly123 Community member Posts: 526 Empowering
    Still have no idea what happened about my last appointment but I got a letter today saying my assessment will be on the 24th x