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janer1967
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Update for you all so you can go out and buy your party outfit ready
Divorce has been granted just the 6 week wait now before it is final
He was also ordered to pay all costs
Divorce has been granted just the 6 week wait now before it is final
He was also ordered to pay all costs
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So long as we're guaranteed a virtual party, I shall immediately begin shopping for my virtual party outfit.
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Congrats. Now to choose a bow tie for the party. ?
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You will all be invited and we can upload pics of out party wear lol well if it gets sorted we can
@leecal can't wait to see your bow tie -
@janer1967 great news, just 6 short weeks then it's onwards and upwards and PARTY TIME !Be extra nice to new members.
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It all ties in with the end of the covid restrictions if they go to plan
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@janer1967 congrats, it gives you closure.
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Congratulations you have closure now I know when my divorce came through I had mixed feelings I felt happy but I also felt sad
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Yay! Very pleased to hear things are moving swiftlyDisability Gamechanger - 2019
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@lisathomas50 I get what you mean I am sad it didn't work my world fell apart the day he left but the more I found out about what he had been up to for so long the more it hurt
It's taken me 4 years to file for divorce but to me it is a milestone to show I have come through the other side and can close that chapter
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Exactly I found out which makes me laugh now because it was one in a million but hard to deal with at the time I was in hospital after just haveiing my son my husband wasn't with me as he said he was to far away he came about four hours later
He came in and a woman came in 2mins after and said oh sorry wrong room and she said what are you doing here to my husband I said he is my husband and we just had a little boy my husband gave me my son and ran
The woman followed him in becsuse she had seen where he had gone as her daughter had been in labour for two days and had a little girl that day and the baby was my husbands he had been with the other person for two years
The worst part was he said he still loved me and wouldn't divorce me it got quite messy -
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@janer1967 I could yo we probably make loads of money I couldn't belive the odds of me being in same time as she was both had a baby he didn't see that one comeing karma lol
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@lisathomas50 my ex had affair with his older sons partner the mother of his grandkids?
He set up with her and they had a child together within 7 months so no other evidence needed about adultery have had another since
Lives with her his 3 grandkids and 2 kids , he also has 3 other kids my son being 1 of them
Can just imagine what his grand daughter said at school would be along lines of my mummy sleeps with my grandad
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Oh god @janer1967 that is beyond must be confusing for the children that's awful to do that to uour own son aswel sorry you had to go through all thst there is always a liveing reminder I am so sorry but your moveung on now he isn't worth the pain
Stay strong and be happy I don't see my ex he stopped comeing to see my son when he was six months old -
I don't see him but our son does see him about 4 times a year
My ex too busy with his new life to bother seeing him
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If your son wants to see him then that's OK my older kids wanted nothing to do with their dad so that's how it's been
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Good luck & the very best wishes Janet for the next exciting new chapter in your life.???
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Sorry Jane!
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Well done
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Blimey @lisathomas50 and @janer1967 - you couldn't write it could you? Life eh!
I'm really pleased to hear the divorce is going through @janer1967 Not long now until some closure and a good old party. I'll get the bunting ready.
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