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How can siblings cope with violent mood swings from autistic family members?

Hello guys, it's not as bad as it sounds but my brother, 13 years of age, who has autism and ADHD and various learning disabilities seems to be having violent mood swings. Typically, it's just been towards me (not my sister or mother) and I feel like it's because he sees me as weaker? I could easily stop him if things got out of hand but he contuously slaps me and hits out at me. What can I do about this??????
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Thanks for replying! It is hard to not take it personally but I do think he may be looking for a reaction so I'll give it a go! Just wondering- what do you reccomend he can do to release his distress (because I think that maybe he lashes out at me to calm down if that makes sense, especially before and after school?)- thanks again xx My mother is great support. I'm not sure what I'd do without her really x