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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    I can understand people getting fed up of me . I can't apologise enough for all my faults etc . Sorry isn't enough I know . I need to stop talking now .

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,223 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I don't think people are fed up of you at all @Strawberry1, sometimes it's just a quiet day or people haven't had time to be on the community much. There's no need to apologise for who you are or for needing support from the community. We're all here to help each other and we value you as a member and a person ๐Ÿ’œ

    Sorry to hear what happened on the other forum, it's a shame they want to close off the area you're using when you've been getting a lot out of it. I hope your Women's Aid worker gets back to you soon too. Please feel free to vent away if you need to!

    When you say you could write in a book, do you get scared someone might look at it? Or is it just that you got more support from the website you were using? Sometimes it's helpful to get your thoughts out, then they don't feel quite as heavy as keeping them all in your head.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Hello @Rosie_Scope , how are you ? I really do hope you are alright. Nice to see you again. Thank you once again for you shoulder to lean on . Thank you. I felt I had more support on the website that's why I've decided to not right things down. I just feel like I'm at a crossroads and just feel in a pickle . I'm going to be watching some TV soon . I've been pottering about today and I made an effort to dye my hair that took up some time . Not sure if I like the colour yet . It's Burgandy black not a colour I usually have . They say a change is as good as a rest I suppose. Anyway I hope you had a good time at Halloween and you enjoyed wearing your outfit . Hope it was a good time . Please please please take care of yourself and always be kind yo yourself. If you are out on Bonfire night enjoy that too . I usually look through the window and watch . I hope you have a pleasant evening. Thank you never seems enough but I am very very grateful and can't thank Scope enough ๐Ÿ™. Best wishes always.

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,223 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Thanks @Strawberry1, I had a fab time at Halloween. I'm sure your hair looks lovely, maybe it'll just take a while to get used to. I remember when I last made a big change to my hair I kept seeing myself in the mirror and thinking "Who's that?!". It took a while before I got used to it and now I can't imagine it how it used to be!

    I can understand that the support must have been really important to you. It can be really hard to make a decision when you're feeling stuck. I hope your Women's Aid person can get back to you quickly. Maybe they can help talk things through with you to find a way forward?

    Or could you talk to someone like your son? Could he could help you untangle some of the difficult decisions?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Glad you had a good Halloween @Rosie_Scope . Glad it went well. My hair probably does look ok it's just different to what I would normally have. I haven't put a colour on it for a while. Anyway I could wear a woolly hat I suppose lol ๐Ÿ˜†. I hope the women's aid person gets back to me soon too . I think the person must be poorly or something. I did have a little conversation with my son a little while ago unfortunately he's working away on something and it's really long hours . There is another alternative i can use so im not completely stuck . In times gone by I've called Samaritans. Thank you again for being so very kind. You are such a lovely person. I look up to you very much . Thank you Scope for existing ๐Ÿ’›. I hope you have a pleasant week @Rosie_Scope make sure you look after yourself. Take care and best wishes always.

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 7,223 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Take care of yourself too @Strawberry1, I hope you can work things out soon ๐Ÿ’›

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you @Rosie_Scope .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you @Bluebell21 , i appreciate that i can be part of the Scope forum . Thanks for the support. Take care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Hope you have had a reasonable day today @Bluebell21 . Look after yourself.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Another day were I'm getting another ear bashing. Always doing something wrong in other people's eyes . Well I've decided I'm not a rubbish person because i don't go around giving people an ear bashing.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Thank you so much @Bluebell21 and @Nightcity . I really appreciate your kindness and support and time. I will chat soon I'm just so tired . Sorry. Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    You look after yourself too @Nightcity and thank you I will take care ๐Ÿ™‚. Sending kind blessings your way . Your a absolute diamond ๐Ÿ’Ž.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,570 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/945466#Comment_945466

    To have such a beautiful soul is unique you are always kind Curtis so gentle never apologise for this keep being you it's hard caring in such a harsh world if only everyone had your pure heart the world will a different place keep reaching for the stars ๐ŸŒŸ

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Someone has hurt my feelings and they never even apologised. I'm very offended because I didn't do anything wrong. I do feel cross about the situation. They haven't been on holiday long and the next thing I know there's upset. I'm fed up.

  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 11,893 Online Community Programme Lead
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/958196#Comment_958196

    I hope you've managed to resolve it with them @Strawberry1 and are feeling better today.

    Do you have anything planned for Christmas?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    Things are quieter today @Adrian_Scope . Thank you. I am making Christmas dinner tomorrow been getting everything prepared. Wishing you a Merry Christmas. Thank you again. Apologies for my late response. Best wishes.

  • photojim
    photojim Online Community Member Posts: 59 Contributor

    Hi, I know how you feel. My partner can be like that, since my issues she had been distant and short with me. We aren't close in any way. Always here if you want to talk.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,735 Championing

    So sorry @photojim . My heart goes out to you . Thank you so much. I empathise with you. Sending kind blessings your way

  • photojim
    photojim Online Community Member Posts: 59 Contributor

    Thank you @Strawberry1 , that's so sweet

  • Wibbles
    Wibbles Online Community Member Posts: 3,032 Championing
    edited January 2

    I think that my wife of 23 years, is planning on walking out on me

    She has been extremely offish for several weeks and everything is getting on top of her

    What should I do ?

    I cannot do anything myself - walking, communicating, cooking, cleaning, gardening etc are all impossible.

    May father is in his 90's so can't help

    I have no support at all

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