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Rosie_Scope

Hi @Strawberry1, how are you feeling about things today? Please don't feel like sharing how you're feeling makes you wrong. It's important to express yourself and get things off your chest sometimes, we're here to support you if you need to talk about anything ❤️

Strawberry1

Hello @Rosie_Scope , I feeling a bit down. I'm sure everything will be OK. I apologise unreservedly for yesterday but when I have to watch my ps and qs its difficult. Thank you for being kind to me . I hope you have a good day today. I do need to call the doctors but I'm going to wait a bit when more time is available for a private conversation with them. I once again apologise unreservedly. Everything is messy. Sorry 😞.

Strawberry1

I wasn't proud of myself yesterday. I apologise unreservedly to everyone. I wasn't being my kind usual self . I think I was hurting 😢.

Strawberry1

I have an appointment with Womens aid next week.

Rosie_Scope

@Strawberry1, sorry to hear that. I wasn't around yesterday so I didn't see anything untoward happening, but we all have difficult moments and there's no need to apologise for days when you're not feeling quite like yourself.

Great that you've got your appointment through with Women's Aid 😊 hope you can get a chance to chat to the doctors soon too.

Strawberry1

Thank you @Rosie_Scope .

Strawberry1

I have a big Financial worry 😟 😰 😓 😨

Rosie_Scope

Oh no @Strawberry1, is it anything we can support you with? Sometimes it can help to break things down into littler pieces so it doesn't feel as overwhelming. Would that work for the thing that you're worrying about?

Strawberry1

Hi @Rosie_Scope , I don't know who can help if I'm honest. I am very worried though. Breaking things down is a good idea but have no idea where to start. Thanks again. I'm sorry.

Albus_Scope

I've always found lists really help me @Strawberry1 so as Rosie said, break things down and take it one step at a time. Bullet points have saved my life. 😆

Strawberry1

I will try @Albus_Scope but not today I don't feel very well with my stomach. I will try to see if I can sort a list thing out soon. Thank you once again. I'm glad lists have helped you . Best wishes.

Albus_Scope

No rush at all @Strawberry1 all in your own time, when you feel up to it. :) I hope your stomach settles down soon.

Strawberry1

Thanks @Albus_Scope .

ricky1040

It can be hard for both the disabled person and the other half if you become disabled after you first meet etc. I know from experience that obviously things change in life when you become disabled or unwell and maybe you change along with it. That can be hard for the other person to deal with. But they need to decide if the love they have for you is strong enough to be able to deal with it. You cannot help what's happened to you. And you certainly shouldn't be punished for it. Hard as it is if they can't come to terms with the change in dynamics etc then maybe they aren't the one for you. But hopefully they prove you wrong and it works.

Strawberry1

Thank you @ricky1040 , your written piece really pulls on the heart strings. You sound like a really kind person. What you have written is very meaningful. I'm so happy to see your post it has put things into perspective. Thank you so much . Your a true star 🌟. Be proud of who you are. Take care

ricky1040

@Strawberry1 no problem. Glad it helped. Take care of yourself

Strawberry1

Thank you again @ricky1040 . Your a diamond 💎.

Strawberry1

You take care too @ricky1040 .

Strawberry1

@Agulu , my sincere apologies for not speaking before now . I've been a bit tense with one thing and another. Just thought I would check in with you.

Strawberry1

How are things with you @Agulu ? It's the new website . I'm still trying to get the hang of it .