Subject: A Shattered Vase: My Voice, My Struggle

As a Black gay man navigating the workplace with a disability, I’ve spent my life fighting to be heard, seen, and valued. Today, I feel the weight of that fight more than ever.

Recently, I was told: “Next time, use your own voice.” Those words, so casually spoken, cut deeply. They dismissed the steps I’ve taken to level the playing field and undermined my efforts to express myself in a world that so often silences people like me. It felt like a hammer striking the fragile vase I’ve spent years piecing together—shattering my confidence and my sense of belonging.

 ClaroRead and AI have been my allies in this journey. They’ve given me a voice when I’ve struggled to find one, enabling me to express myself and compete in ways that should be celebrated, not questioned. Yet, despite the occupational health recommendations for training and upgraded tools, my workplace has done the bare minimum: a larger screen, outdated software, and no proper training. It feels performative—like they’re just ticking boxes to appear inclusive while ignoring my real needs.

The cracks in my vase are growing wider. The water isn’t just seeping out anymore—it’s rushing uncontrollably. Each time it breaks, I lose a little more energy, a little more hope. As I approach sixty, I find myself wondering: How much longer can I keep trying to fix this broken system?

I’ve carried the weight of my disability, my identity, and the constant need to prove myself for decades. I’m tired of having to explain, justify, and fight for what should be basic rights. I’m tired of being judged, ignored, and pushed aside.

This isn’t just my story—it’s the story of countless others in marginalized communities who face systemic barriers every day. I’m sharing it because I want to see change. I want to see workplaces truly commit to inclusion, to equity, to valuing diverse voices—not just in theory, but in practice.

No one should have to feel like they’re constantly gluing themselves back together, only to break again.

What I hope for is to amplify this story to highlight the systemic issues faced by marginalizetion 

1. Raise Awareness: Share my story on your platforms to spark conversations about the challenges faced by disabled individuals in workplaces, particularly those from marginalized backgrounds.

2. Advocate for Change: Support initiatives that push for better implementation of assistive technologies, comprehensive training, and policies that genuinely accommodate neurodiverse employees.

3. Connect Me with Resources: Help me find networks, legal support, or advocacy groups that can assist in addressing workplace discrimination and advancing accessibility.

4. Collaborate on Solutions: If your organization has ongoing campaigns or programs, I’d love to contribute my lived experience to inform strategies and create impactful change.

I’m open to further discussion and would greatly appreciate your guidance on how best to proceed. Thank you again for your support and for being part of this journey toward equity and inclusion.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

 Warm regards,