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I'm. Still in shock
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@Sandy_123 I went to bed for a couple of hours, im up until 4am, then my carer comes at 9.30am. I was feeling tired and cold, feeling warmer this evening. Hope you are ok to.
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GGood morning ex nightshift worker.lol
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Still feeling very upset over losing Toby
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I can imagine it's so upsetting to go through leaves a massive void have to go through so many emotions do you have any support
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I'm so sorry about Toby @Amberpearl, sending you lots of love. I know you've been through a lot of loss with your cats over the last few months so it's not surprising you're feeling so upset ❤️
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Morning all. Hope you are all ok. @Amberpearl it will take time, you are grieving for a much loved Toby. You will have happy memories of him, and this will help in time. He went in his sleep which i think I would prefer for my pets, he was in his happy place. sending hugs.
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Morning everyone @Emmutant @Amberpearl it is a lot for you
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Ifeel numb
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You will @Amberpearl he had a great life with you and lots of good memories to hold on to
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No
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It's not fair
Why are they dying
Prob old age and illness I know
But they have been part of my life for years
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I don't think he was in pain. I hope not
He wasmt sick
Yes I have many photos and memories
Not the same though
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Sending big hugs today
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You have this group we totally understand your pain and what your going through is extremely painful all the different stages it's the day we all dread the one thing through all the pain your feeling be proud of giving Toby the best life all the love and care and we do we pour everything into our pets everything that love takes a long long time to heal from your a wonderful kind caring person all animal lovers are for time being take it day by day and talk express your feelings we are here for you
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@Amberpearl I know it won't feel like it now, it's alot harder as you have had more loss than just Toby, they have all had an important part in your life for many years. You say they all passed peacefully which shows they were all well looked after and loved being with you. I never forget my pets who have passed i feel their presence still around but with time ive been able to remember the happy times. Grieving is different for everyone, im already worried about my 13yr dog as he is getting older and I love him as my best friend. There are I think? charities for those who have lost pets, prehaps you could reach out to any of them for support with your Grieving. Lots of good people on this site are here to help you talk about your grief. Prehaps when you are feeling up to it, post some pictures of your loved pets. Eventually you may even feel like you could offer a home to a new cat, unfortunately their are alot of rescue cats needing loving homes. Hugs.
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It never feels fair when they leave us @Amberpearl they live such short lives but make such a big impact in ours 💜
Blue Cross have a phone line and online chat for people experiencing the loss of a pet if you feel like you'd want to talk to someone:
Blue Cross Pet Loss Support | Pet Loss
Cats Protection have a similar service too:
Grief resources and support | Grief and loss | Cats Protection
And of course, we're all here to chat too 😊
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I've lost so many cats through illnesses and old age. It never gets any easier
I piece of me dies with every loss
I live alone and all I have are cats
My kids dont live close by
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