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  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing

    I've haf some cereal and cup of tea

    My BP now says 151 80lol

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,231 Championing

    Thats good @Amberpearl

    I've bought the grandchildren a sewing kit that has animals to sew together and make, so should keep them busy

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @Amberpearl feel better soon 😊

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/981768#Comment_981768

    Aw that a nice thing to do

    I'm frozen and so tired

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,231 Championing

    It is cold it's a north wind here 🥶

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing

    I'm. Just tired. Hope I sleep better tonight

  • Teigr
    Teigr Community Member Posts: 5,080 Championing

    I've been ready for bed since 3 o'clock @Amberpearl,I'm aching from head to toe.

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 277 Connected

    hey, kept getting days with my mum that seem always feel like bit like dead end . last night i was okay went to out town for tea on bus . going on bus was okay and did thank you to bus driver . after having corn dogs . after . i was getting bit overwhelm when after when i did tried to singel to my mum but didn't take any notice once . did kept texting her but still . when i wanted to go outside and calm down but my mum force me back in . i know had t anxiety but my mum never seem to help me

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 678 Championing

    @Teigr hope you feel better soon x

  • Teigr
    Teigr Community Member Posts: 5,080 Championing

    Thanks @Marydoll5 ,I'm off to bed in a minute.

    I hope you manage to find someone to decorate the hall for your wedding.

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    @Teigr I hope you wake up feeling a bit better. I hope everyone else gets some sleep.

    @Katiedimelow20 it's hard sometimes with family. I struggle with my mum trying to do to much, seems mad I'm worried about that, but it can be quite controlling. I feel stressed out when my mum is coming, then put my dad into the picture im even worse.

    Me and my only sister who passed away just turned 38, had a traumatic childhood. My sister was in need of more help than me, so she was her main focus of attention, she had struggled with the help too. Then my nan was her focus until she passed away a few years back so now it's my turn.

    Like you I try to please her but with my challenges it's not easy. I think that once she had finally accepted, me and my sister had grown up feeling so affected from abuse that we suffered, her way dealing with it, was by her helping us, her way of making it up to us.

    When my sister died, I lost the one person who totally got it, someone I could talk to as she went through the same as me.

    It sounds like you are doing your best,. You accept who you are that's important for you. Some families hide problems in a closet, and don't like to admit to anything being wrong. Keep yourself well and get support from people who understand you, be it professionals or good friends.

    One day she may offer you the underlying that you want until then talk to others who do understand. Sometimes saying it outloud is weight of your shoulders.

    I hope you feel better in yourself soon, anxiety is real, don't be put off when others don't understand how debilitating it can feel.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/981925#Comment_981925

    Well I feel weak as a kitten

    Woke up once

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing

    Good morning all

    Absolutely chuckin it down

  • Teigr
    Teigr Community Member Posts: 5,080 Championing

    Morning all.

    It's positively Baltic here today.

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering

    Grey, wet and dull here i , feel like climbing back into bed

  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Community Member Posts: 193 Empowering
  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing

    It's raining and I'm cold

  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 63,231 Championing

    Morning all same here with rain

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 4,126 Championing

    It's still torrential rain

    Miserable morning

  • Katiedimelow20
    Katiedimelow20 Community Member Posts: 277 Connected

    @Elvisdog I'm sorry to hear that. my mum treated me completely different when comes to being anxious . I'm not been have not been diagnosed yet. i know that i got anxiety . i had not then my younger sister . i got two sisters one is older then me and one is younger then me. yet my younger sister can express her anxiety just and talk to parents just fine . i always has issue with my mum did kept saying you don't need to have being anxious . what you shouldn't really say when people get anxious . my mum did that . as well of refuse help when I was at Liverpool i can't remember much . one lady came to talk to my mum and ask if I need help but my said no . my whole-body did freeze but didn't know what is was at time . I was really angry and upset of my mum . i did watch inside out 2 with my mum at Odeon cinema in at one point when i didn't go to toilet at Asda but did went upstairs in my younger sister renting house i think . did had one of my google pixel watch 1 on and did felt my heartrate did went and did noticed is was my heart was beating faster and did felt . when i was at top of the stair i noticed my hands was shaking as well . i thought about the one of screen from inside out 2 when i was trying to calm down and as using the toilet at time . did calm down . I'm not sure if i did had type of Panic attacks . if i did but didn't realise the first one that think happen in Liverpool or maybe something else might happen .

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