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  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    I'm glad you've found Beat nice @Shaunie :) 

    I'm sorry to hear that your friend has been treating you like that. Have you told them how this makes you feel, and that it's been triggering your eating disorder? 
    He won’t listen to me, he says it’s fun triggering me. He won’t stop but he’s the only friend I have 
  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    Thank you @Lou67
  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    @durhamjaide2001 he’s the only friend I have, if I ddd ex ported him he’d wouldn’t want to be friends so I cannot do that
  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    I’ve eaten a sandwich and crisps 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,452 Championing
    Well done on eating the sandwich and crisps @Shaunie :) Did you tell the doctors about your plan to lose weight?

    As for your friend: it's your choice who you want to be friends with. However, if it were me, I'd be asking myself whether they're someone I want to be friends with. 

    You seem friendly, kind, and interested in other people, which are all qualities of a good friend. Have you considered joining any groups or clubs to meet new people, and perhaps make new friends?
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    I agree with tori I think you need to adk yourself if he is really a friend . A friend should be supporting you not making fun of you 

    Maybe try writing him a letter telling how his actions are making you feel and triggering your eating disorder . Sometimes reading what you have to say can be very powerful 

    I'm glad you have eaten you need to do what is right for you and not others 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,674 Championing
    @Shaunie

    Hi I hope your feeling a bit better, and glad your eating something.

    Im sorry to say this but he doesn’t seem like a good friend to have, as a good friend wouldn’t treat you like that. 
    Remember youv got your mum  for support and your little girl, she will keep you occupied,
    I know sometimes we feel we are better with someone rather than no one. But I don’t think this time is one off them.

    We are all here for you ❤️
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Afternoon @Shaunie glad you had a sandwich and crisps darling, hopefully you'll get your opp sorted tomorrow then you can move on with other things darling. Have you been chatting with the other patients, all helps the time go quick.
  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 13,127 Championing
    I'm proud of you for eating @Shaunie
  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    My surgery’s tomorrow I’m nervous 
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,452 Championing
    I hope that it all goes as smoothly as possible @shaunie :) Make sure that you ask the doctors if you have any questions about it, and share any concerns you have with them!
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,674 Championing
    @Shaunie

    Just want to wish you good luck for tomorrow.
    I will find out tomorrow how you are. Take care.

    Good night ❤️


  • Sandy_123
    Sandy_123 Scope Member Posts: 60,274 Championing
    Good luck for your op @shaunie
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Good Morning @Shaunie I bet you are nervous bab everyone gets nervous before any procedure, the quicker its done the better and you'l be on your road to recovery, hopefully they'l start at 9 so not long to wait now. 
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    Good luck for today 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,674 Championing
    @Shaunie

    I hope you had your operation today, and it went well.
    I hope your recovering and taking it easy. ❤️
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Morning @Shaunie hope the opp went well and you had a good nights sleeps.
  • Shaunie
    Shaunie Posts: 152 Connected
    I’m feeling tired but surgery went well 
  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,674 Championing
    @Shaunie

    Im so glad it went well for you, I hope you can rest and get some sleep.
    Build your strength again.

    Take care stay strong ❤️
  • janer1967
    janer1967 Online Community Member Posts: 21,922 Championing
    Nice to hear from you and glad it went