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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Ive got to try and be a better person .

    I need to be a better person

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    I never meant to upset my ex friend .

    I never meant too .

    I was so very foolish

    But my mental health and personal issues at home arose and made me struggle a bit ( not the most best reason) but my head wasnt in the best place and i was doing the best i could at that time .

    Hoping in time God will forgive me .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Take care

    Keep safe

    Keep warm

    Look after yourselves

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Sending peace , love and harmony all around

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Just chatting with @Nightcity has opened my eyes on a few things.

    I am still awaiting my autism assessment but i can relate to so many many autistic traits .

    Makes me feel less alone in this world .

    Ok Im not perfect but if the diagnosis says yes then i be more acceptive of myself even if others are not .

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 580 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087021#Comment_1087021

    I'm so glad you now see things how they actually are, that's amazing progress. There's absolutely nothing wrong with you at all.

    people just enjoy being spiteful when unhappy themselves.

    Voyage to the bottom of the sea is another I forgot channel 4 Sunday mornings 1989-1994 I would watch that then go play out with my friends.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    @Nightcity , i cant thank you enough .

    I dont know how to thank you enough

    Filling up because of your kindness

    Your kindness means alot .

    Im glad u had things you could watch and enjoy .

    Thank you for your friendship it means alot

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 580 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087026#Comment_1087026

    No problem, anytime you know that.

    I would like to apologise for leaving the forum for 8 months, I know some of my friends may have felt let down by that.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    People need to take time out every now and again @Nightcity .

    I left too

    Im sure deep down people understand .

    You wasnt being selfish they will know that

    Grant yourself a little lee way @Nightcity

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Sometimes life happens @Nightcity .

    Thank you again .

    Your here now thats what counts

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 580 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087038#Comment_1087038

    thanks for being understanding, next time I won't close the account down if I need time out.

    How do you do in December, do you struggle more than any other time or do you do ok with it?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Your very welcome @Nightcity .

    I struggle in December

    But then again

    I struggle in Summer too .

    Im just a very complex person @Nightcity very complex

    Not a massive fan of Xmas

    I just mask and hope for the best

    You took time out for a reason @Nightcity .

    Please dont be too hard on yourself .

    I probably should have engaged more too

    That time has now passed

    We are both on our new paths and we are doing ok

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Im gonna have to put my phone on charge soon @Nightcity

    Im intrigued to learn more about autism and gain stronger friendships here because despite having family around sometimes we can feel incredibly lonely especially when the people around us arent understanding

    I hope that would be ok

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 580 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087045#Comment_1087045

    Of course it's ok, Although all autistics are different I'm at the more severe end unfortunately so not all that applies to me will to you, but I'm sure we can help each other. 💛

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    I have read and seen stuff online about autism and how it differs in people

    It also differs in males and females too .

    Ive longed to be in contact with people who understand rather than what ive encounted in life ( non understanding people ) .

    Im not gonna quiz you continually or ask a million questions .

    Just having the feeling of not being an outcast is enough for now .

    Always felt like the odd one in society

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    When i found out i had adhd it made a lot of sense to me but close family still slate me for who i am and what i am and how i approach things etc

    No compassion whatsoever .

    We are not bad people

    We are just different

    Doesnt make us bad people because they dont like how we are .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    The ammount of judgement we get is unreal

    People in glass houses comes to mind

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Poppin phone on charge

    Thanks for the chat @Nightcity

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 7,910 Championing

    Chat soon

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 580 Empowering

    I don't mind you ask what you like when you like.

    Yes it is different in males and females I had a partner who also had autism, a sweet darling and the only partner who didn't a*use me. Her problems and mine differed but she was much more independent than me.

    my sister has ADHD, sadly we don't speak anymore after a cruel action on her part last year.

    But you're not an outcast, this world is unfortunately however not built for us autistics yet they expect us to conform to their norms and I can't, don't and won't being extremely stubborn and principled causes me more grief lol

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