Mental health

SunflowerValley · June 27

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/882001#Comment_882001

Hi @Strawberry1, sorry for the late response. Been a little busy today. Thank you. I'm actually feeling a lot better now, the pain has gone and my appetite is back.

You are not a burden, you are a kind and lovely person.

Today I got a ventilator which is exciting and I don't know how to feel about it. I have also been out with my sister for tea which was awkward.

Strawberry1 · June 27

No need to apologise @SunflowerValley , it's absolutely fine . Glad you are feeling better today. I appreciate your kindness once again. Hope all goes well with the ventilator . So sorry to hear how having tea with your sister was aqwuard. Family life is so stressful isn't it .

SunflowerValley · June 27

Anytime @Strawberry1, Thank you for your kindness and support. Families can be so complicated.

Strawberry1 · June 27

I don't feel comfortable at all around my son or daughter. I don't think we connect at all well .

Strawberry1 · June 28

Hi @Beaver79 , no they don't live with me but something occurred yesterday and they both came to the house . My opinion was different to their opinion and I their answers made me think I'm trash/ rubbish / a terrible person ???????????? . I'm sorry @Beaver79 . I don't know what to think about anything. Thank you so much for your support. Im just so sorry I'm always messing up . Please please please take care of yourself and be kind to yourself too 💜. Have a reasonable day 😊.

Strawberry1 · June 28

I am trash/ rubbish etc it's all true .

Strawberry1 · June 28

In parts of the conversation I was stating where I saw it from. Everyone has different ways of viewing things . But no I'm wrong as per usual. It's always me what's wrong. Never anyone else.

SunflowerValley · June 28

Hi @Strawberry1, sorry to hear that you feel uncomfortable around your son and daughter. You are not a rubbish person. You are a kind and supportive person. And you are not messing up. You are doing everything right.

Thank you for opening up to us. 💜

Strawberry1 · June 28

Thank you again for your support @SunflowerValley it really is appreciated. I'm starting to detest myself more and more . Please take care.

Strawberry1 · June 28

I will never understand why my family are against me on a regular basis.

Strawberry1 · June 28

Totally and utterly fed up with them all . Really am fed up with them.

Strawberry1 · June 28

Got to go food shopping. Take care of yourselves everyone 💜.

Strawberry1 · June 28

Hope everyone has a reasonable morning. God bless you all .

Strawberry1 · June 28

Thank you @Beaver79 . I got myself some nice food. Your a real gem 💎. Take care 🙂

Rachel_Scope · June 28

Hi @Strawberry1. It's lovely to meet you. I'm Rachel and I'm one of the new coordinators 😊

I'm so sorry to hear about the struggles with your family, it must be difficult for you. What I've noticed is that despite how low you may be feeling you're still posting and making sure everyone else is having a good day and takes care of themselves. That's the sign of a lovely, caring person. I agree with what @Beaver79 and @SunflowerValley have said, be kind to yourself and remind yourself how wonderful you are 😊

Tell me more about the nice food you've got. I need to go shopping so I'm only having a boring cheese sandwich!

Strawberry1 · June 28

Hi @Rachel_Scope , sorry for my late reply. Lovely to meet you too . Thank you so much for your support. I like to be kind to people it doesn't cost Anything. I find it difficult to be kind to myself unfortunately. I just got myself a little tin of pink salmon for a sandwich. I enjoyed it too . Hope you can get something nice for yourself. Lovely to meet you again. I hope you have a good rest of your day .