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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    I understand @Agulu , I don't know how to do private conversations though. I hope you are reasonably OK.

  • Agulu
    Agulu Community member Posts: 142 Empowering

    I text you, sorry is late but l can't doing anything when my partner is home, be strong

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    I understand.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Womens aid have a site where people can have private conversations.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    My thoughts are with you ❤️ @Agulu . Side by side we will get stronger together ❤️. We will beat all of this I know we will . Stay strong. Sending gentle hugs and kind blessings your way ❤️. We won't let them grind us down. They are not going to win this we are . Please please please take care of yourself and please be kind to yourself because you are so very important don't ever forget that. I'm in your corner always.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Thinking of you @Agulu . Sending gentle hugs.

  • Marydoll5
    Marydoll5 Community member Posts: 592 Championing

    @Strawberry1 and @Agulu I have been through exact same and escapedafter 20 years. Women's aid are a fantastic organisation and they helped me see I was living in a circle of violence and getting controlled and gaslit.

    I would really recommend their courses and women of all ages go. It helps that you are not alone experiencing this and certainly not stupid....that's how the perpetrators want you to feel.

    I got out after 22 years so there is hope. Please feel free to pm me night or dayx

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Thank you for your support @Marydoll5 much appreciated. I'm getting a call next week from womens aid . I'm looking forward to that . Glad you got out of one of these awful situations .

  • Jimm_Scope
    Jimm_Scope Posts: 5,410 Scope Online Community Specialist

    Thank you @Marydoll5 for sharing your experience and your advice 💜 I always find it wonderful how much this community can share what they've been through to help those going through it themselves

  • Agulu
    Agulu Community member Posts: 142 Empowering

    Thank you very much. This kind of help and support is amazing to me, no one gives it to me and that's why I'm still alivWe had another argument today. He left. I would like to go and cry, but he will be back soon,and he will tell me again how disgusting I am, how disgusting I am, that he can't look at me ...

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    I am so truly sorry @Agulu for everything that you are having to deal with . The behaviour of these people is so very disrespectful. As you already know you should be being treated kindly and when that doesn't happen it's heartbreaking 💔. Not one single person deserves to be being treated the way you are . I will never know what gives a person the right to treat someone else so badly . You will always be in my thoughts because of how important you are . They may upset us but they will never break us . Keep chatting we will beat this . Be kind to yourself. Sending gentle hugs now and always 🤗 ❤️ 💜 ♥️ 💖 💙 🤗.

  • Agulu
    Agulu Community member Posts: 142 Empowering

    I'm afraid this is too much for me, I don't want to do anything anymore, I'm mentally broken and I won't get up again. I don't have the strength to fight anymore, it's time to give up

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    @Agulu , my heart breaks to see this . I am so sorry if I have upset you that wasn't my intention. I just wanted you to know I was here for you and that I'm thinking of you . Are you able to get in touch with someone who can point you in the right direction. I am so terribly sorry if I have upset you that wasn't what I was trying to do . Womens aid are good to talk too . I know of a place called Safe Net who you can call night or day . If you Google Safe net Womens aid you will find a number and they will listen. We are all here to support you along this journey. I hope we can stay friends. Try and reach out to a helpline please. Sending lots of hugs and love your way .

  • Jimm_Scope
    Jimm_Scope Posts: 5,410 Scope Online Community Specialist

    Hey @Strawberry1, I don't think it is about you at all. I want to mention that we've reached out to them to see how they are.

    I hope you're doing okay yourself 💜

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Hi @Jimm_Scope , thank you for letting me know . I'm plodding on best I can thanks. Take care of yourself too .

  • Agulu
    Agulu Community member Posts: 142 Empowering

    thank you all, everything is OK for now, I'm looking forward to the call from mental health

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Your welcome @Agulu , hope everything goes OK with your phone call. Look after yourself x

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Sending gentle hugs to @Agulu . Thinking of you 🤗.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    Hoping you got that call @Agulu . Thinking of you 🤗.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 5,450 Championing

    I feel so unsure about stuff. Things have gone quiet. No dramas at the moment. This so does mess with my head .

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