What are some tips I can use to improve my chances of getting into a long-term relationship?

Splatmate24

@/Lou67 that is not being rude at all . you just didn't like my opinion that i has tons of time's breaking . yep repeating stuff what i dislike and being called rude when i wasn't be rude at all . heard this line over and over again take a break . yep done this thing . tons of times . not even mad . think  before u post 

WhatThe

Splatmate,
  
Show your mum what you can do for yourself and surprise her  

I'm suggesting searching for new places to visit and activities you would enjoy doing with your mum because you sound fed up at the moment. These are small steps towards independence, getting used to new people and discovering hidden talents. 

I love train journeys and trams too, looking out of the windows at our lovely countryside and animals makes me happy and stops me worrying about little things. 

Jimm_Alumni

Hey everyone. I know this topic can be frustrating. I don't think @Splatmate24 meant her words to be seen as rude @Lou67. I can see from her posts here that this is something she deeply cares about and it's something that is really frustrating them. I hope you don't mind me saying that Splatemate. 

I know when I was struggling with my Crohn's disease I often heard the same advice again and again, despite it not working for me. It could sometimes be difficult to not get frustrated at it, even though I knew the person meant the advice entirely in good faith. 

Remember, we're all here to help each other, we all have different experiences of life.

Splatmate24

@WhatThe yep i'm  fed up with my mum but i had try hobbies and have try to going to social events . there is none anymore in my town . has go into city to get   social events for learning disabilities. i fed up with my town to . i can't find some men men that i met  social events i only see them friends and not attracted to them at all . i also fed up with men to .

WhatThe

Splatmate,
 
Take small steps towards the independence you want - could you be responsible for the menu of the day or the packed lunches or be timekeeper for a day? Do something different or differently if you want to see change. Doing something for another person or a pet makes us feel good and valued. 

There's a big world outside to discover new activities, new friends and your hidden talents. Try and try again is how we get better at anything. Being polite, friendly and patient with everyone you meet is my top tip for improving your chances of getting into a long-term relationship. It's impossible to like every single thing about anybody but you can trust your mum to know who's nice and who's not for you.   

Splatmate24

@WhatThe that what i been doing but so far nothing but boredom and kept having colds . sore throats . i do kept trying and over and over again . nothing works . there is lots more women in sociel events then is men .  i also was bully and cyber bully by some women . same thing with real life meeting people is more harder since i have to go into city since they not much on my town can't cook in oven or pan . only can used mircowaves . not well with time to . my mum also won't let me do this thing .

Rosie_Scope

Sounds very frustrating @Splatmate24, I can understand why you feel fed up about the situation. Sorry that you got cyber bullied too, that doesn't sound nice at all. And lots of horrible colds and coughs going around that make things even harder when you're trying to meet people!

I'm not sure I have any more advice to share today, but we're always here to listen when you need to rant about things. I'll keep thinking to see if I can come up with any more suggestions you could try.

Hope things start getting better for you soon!