means tested benefits - is they a limit on what we can use the money for .
darrel22
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I was worried about this for some time but i have always given CSA child money to my X partner, I don't think it is compulsory to do so on benefit or maybe small amount, but I give what i can i try and save a few hundred a month from my benefit to send, but I don't spend a lot on myself and am willing to go without in order to help my son , my X partner is struggling financial so it makes me happy knowing they have extra money in there house hold to help . The problem that worries me is i don't know if i am doing anything wrong and if the DWP will punish me for it.
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You are not doing anything wrong by doing this. What you spend your money on is entirely your decision.
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poppy123456 said:You are not doing anything wrong by doing this. What you spend your money on is entirely your decision.0
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2oldcodgers said:poppy123456 said:You are not doing anything wrong by doing this. What you spend your money on is entirely your decision.
No one said it wasn't. However, when you continue to tell people in many different comments in the past that PIP is for the extra costs of having a disability and they should spend their money on anything they want to. Then turn around and say you have no extra costs so give your money away then it's like the pot calling the kettle black. Please don't advise people one thing and then do the exact opposite yourself!!
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poppy123456 said:2oldcodgers said:poppy123456 said:You are not doing anything wrong by doing this. What you spend your money on is entirely your decision.
No one said it wasn't. However, when you continue to tell people in many different comments in the past that PIP is for the extra costs of having a disability and they should spend their money on anything they want to. Then turn around and say you have no extra costs so give your money away then it's like the pot calling the kettle black. Please don't advise people one thing and then do the exact opposite yourself!!
Our household bills are all up to date, all paid for out of my Civil Service pensions, we have no Council Tax to pay. The only expense left is petrol for the Motability car that we rarely use. We don't go away on holiday except maybe the odd day out.
We do however have a fairly good social life with invites from friends and ex work colleagues to attend various functions birthday parties/theatres/conservative party functions/Lodge dinners etc.
None of the above would cost more than £10 between us for raffle tickets.
So what should we do with the weekly £100+ that PIP pays out instead of us helping out a disabled young relative who was refused benefit?
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If you have no daily living needs why do you claim it @2oldcodgers, pip is 2 separate elements and you can just claim mobility by answering no problems to the daily living part.3
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@vikingqueen
Hi I hope you’re keeping well.Those were my thoughts exactly, if you didn’t put a case forward saying things were wrong with you I’m sure there would be no award made.1 -
2oldcodgers said:poppy123456 said:2oldcodgers said:poppy123456 said:You are not doing anything wrong by doing this. What you spend your money on is entirely your decision.
No one said it wasn't. However, when you continue to tell people in many different comments in the past that PIP is for the extra costs of having a disability and they should spend their money on anything they want to. Then turn around and say you have no extra costs so give your money away then it's like the pot calling the kettle black. Please don't advise people one thing and then do the exact opposite yourself!!
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woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits?
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woodbine said:poppy123456 said:woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits?1
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woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits? The last masonic lodge dinner I went to cost us far more than £10 and that was 30 years ago, its true that PIP is for the extra cost that disability brings but there are no rules on how it should be spent, and as motability is a charity it seems a shame that you use your PIP mobility to pay for a car that you "rarely" use.
It's a shame that you seem to want to press on others what you see right for you <shakes head>
The tickets we use are provided free of charge either by the venues or in the case of 'Black Tie' do's are paid for us by a long friends and standing members in consideration of how I helped them all with their tax and business problems in the past.
As for using the Motability car this is used for longer distances say once every 6/8 weeks. I don't believe that there is a minimum mileage condition.
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2oldcodgers said:woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits? The last masonic lodge dinner I went to cost us far more than £10 and that was 30 years ago, its true that PIP is for the extra cost that disability brings but there are no rules on how it should be spent, and as motability is a charity it seems a shame that you use your PIP mobility to pay for a car that you "rarely" use.
It's a shame that you seem to want to press on others what you see right for you <shakes head>
As for using the Motability car this is used for longer distances say once every 6/8 weeks. I don't believe that there is a minimum mileage condition.
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poppy123456 said:woodbine said:poppy123456 said:woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits?
This to be honestly, is ridiculous on an other front. Because of that top up we receive all of the COL payments and pensioner heating allowances. I have spoken to my MP who happens to be a good friend also about this as pensioners are being given these extras when in the main they are not required or needed. We will see what happens in March 24.0 -
Lou67 said:@vikingqueen
Hi I hope you’re keeping well.Those were my thoughts exactly, if you didn’t put a case forward saying things were wrong with you I’m sure there would be no award made.
It is more than possible that many claimants of PIP have difficult disabilities yet they would have no extra costs involved.
Secondly where are the extra costs for being unable to walk more than 20 metres? Prior to April 2023 I have always owned my own cars. Should the Mobility award have been used as part payment of the finance? I would have owned the cars whether I was disabled or not. I always changed cars after 3 years to maintain a manufacturers warranty. I'll go back to 1992 when I started to buy new cars every 3 years (previously I kept older cars on the road.) My disabilities started in December 1995!
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@2oldcodgers
Im not here to argue with you. If I didn’t need the money from pip I just wouldn’t claim it.
I have never before known anyone to moan they are getting TO MUCH money to live on that they can give it away. 🤷♀️3 -
poppy123456 said:2oldcodgers said:woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits? The last masonic lodge dinner I went to cost us far more than £10 and that was 30 years ago, its true that PIP is for the extra cost that disability brings but there are no rules on how it should be spent, and as motability is a charity it seems a shame that you use your PIP mobility to pay for a car that you "rarely" use.
It's a shame that you seem to want to press on others what you see right for you <shakes head>
As for using the Motability car this is used for longer distances say once every 6/8 weeks. I don't believe that there is a minimum mileage condition.
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Secondly where are the extra costs for being unable to walk more than 20 metres?
I can walk but like most people, have experienced immobility and needed cabs. I'm a bit baffled by the question tbh
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WhatThe said:
Secondly where are the extra costs for being unable to walk more than 20 metres?
I can walk but like most people, have experienced immobility and needed cabs. I'm a bit baffled by the question tbh0 -
woodbine said:2oldcodgers said:woodbine said:Not sure why you have no CT to pay unless you get means tested benefits? The last masonic lodge dinner I went to cost us far more than £10 and that was 30 years ago, its true that PIP is for the extra cost that disability brings but there are no rules on how it should be spent, and as motability is a charity it seems a shame that you use your PIP mobility to pay for a car that you "rarely" use.
It's a shame that you seem to want to press on others what you see right for you <shakes head>
The tickets we use are provided free of charge either by the venues or in the case of 'Black Tie' do's are paid for us by a long friends and standing members in consideration of how I helped them all with their tax and business problems in the past.
As for using the Motability car this is used for longer distances say once every 6/8 weeks. I don't believe that there is a minimum mileage condition.
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What £70's worth of cabs every week?
That's my weekly income and I can walk so in my case, no!
Somebody unable to walk more than 20 metres might spend that on cabs every week, yes!
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