Has my boyfriend crossed the line

hannah24

She's the best 😊 but I feel like I let her down whenever I get a boyfriend. It's strange because I like being in a relationship but I feel that the men I meet treat me great at the start then when they get too comfy they think it's ok to change and find it acceptable to treat me in a way that hurts me. I have had the same happen to me on friendships. Girls that are great friends to start then take advantage. 

antiquecollector

Oh wow oh gosh

Thats very unhealthy and sad

Some horrible people out there

Hannah_Alumni

Have you spoken with your mum @hannah24? How are you today? 

hannah24

Hey guys sorry I couldn't remember log in. It's got worse he now says he doesn't love me and that he could just go and get another woman easy because it's not hard it only takes one phone call. He knows I have low self confidence and esteem . It's such a mess . I love him yet he does this. 

antiquecollector

Omg thats terrible

hannah24

Yes it's got worse

antiquecollector

Finnish things asap

Adrian_Scope

Hi @hannah24, I'm sorry to read that things have gotten worse for you. We have another member in a sort of similar situation and you may find some of the responses useful. 

vikingqueen

 Tell your mum whats going on, she might already have an idea. No one who loves you will treat you that way. Be honest with yourself because I think you already know where this is going. 

chiarieds

Can I just speak as a Mum - it's far more hurtful as a Mum not to know what a child (altho an adult) is going through. Mums are there for you to share your concerns with. It's incredibly difficult when you love someone to walk away, but sometimes you just need to look after yourself, & that's not being selfish in any way.

Just hope you'll try talking to your Mum; she'll be there for you, whatever you decide.

Jimm_Alumni

Hi @hannah24, how are you doing today? Have you managed to talk to your mum at all?

Wibbles

@hannah24 Hannah,

I do feel for you, my wife / carer occasionally says similar to me - but this is due to stress and the fact that she has no support from anyone - we have to understand that this is not our partner true feelings and remember the better times.