Having HCP and watching other people have s

pooleemily29
pooleemily29 Community member Posts: 13 Connected
edited November 6 in Relationships

Hi, it's @pooleemily29 here, ahd yes I know I sound like a broken record, but forgive me. I was out shopping this morning in my local shopping mall, and as I was wondering I suddenly felt this strange sense of sadness come over me.

I'm about to turn 30 in a few weeks time and watching everyone else having relationships and having their fun is no fun for a person who has to watch unfold day in day out.

At lot of the time I feel as if I'm only one that can see what's happening. I can't talk to my friends because I have none at all.

I just want to find someone who knows how to treat a woman right like real lady.

Also, with my disability, I know that everyone says " you turn an adult legally when your 18"! Well I didn't feel as through I legally turned to adult at 18 I still.felt like a child with everyone watching me and constantly asking what I'm doing it annoys me to hell. Can anyone relate to this?

Love @pooleemily29 ❤️ 😍

Comments

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 11,776 Championing

    happy birthday for a few weeks time I hope you have a lovely day

  • surfygoose
    surfygoose Community member Posts: 485 Empowering

    Yes I think I understand a bit how you feel. Do you mean because you have care needs so you still get told what to do by carers and things like that? I didn’t know if I got the meaning correctly of your post but if so then yes I know what that feels like.