Alone

Bluebell21

Hi @sarah2024 I am so sorry you and your son have fallen out. It must be very difficult for you not to have heard anything from him since the 11 December 2024 and to have spent Christmas day on your own.

Do you have any way of contacting him? Do you know where he might be staying?

Do you usually hear from your family over the Christmas and New Year period?

Sorry if I am asking too many questions you do not have to answer me if you do not want to. I am just trying to understand your situation.

Please know we are here to listen and offer support where we can.

I hope your son will contact you in the New Year so you are able to discuss things and perhaps clear the air.

Please take care of yourself.

sarah2024

it is really difficult, I’m ok, but it’s hard because I’ve never spent a Christmas without my son, in 24 years

Just coming downstairs Xmas morning was so hard knowing he wasn’t there . I didn’t know if he would come round or not
but he didn’t

I believe he’s blocked my number

And on social media

I did see a picture on his new gf fb

A Christmas pic taken with all her family

Which was a real kick in the teeth

So I know where he is

He’s spending it with his new gf

And her family

I know he has work tomorrow

I don’t know

I think he must just be trying to cool down

But him moving out like that

And at Xmas is really hurtful

And prob my own fault

My family all just doing there own thing

They all know what’s going on

And none bothered to inclued me knowing I was on my

Own

I just need to start doing things for my self now

Only just sorted my universal credit out

And then he leaves …

So now I got start all this with telling council he’s gone

Council tax and

Then it’s all going to get messed up

Bedroom tax ect

And assuming I’ll have to get in touch with universal credit as well 🤦‍♀️ Nightmare

I’m just watching films and trying to keep occupied

I just keep thinking about all those Xmas morning together over the years of him being a kid

Iff to s just so hurtful

He’s my only child too

I’m just going to leave him to cool down

Carry on and do what I need to do
and hope he wants to sort stuff out X

Holly_Scope

Hi @sarah2024 I am so sorry, my heart is breaking for you reading this.

I hope you're doing ok today. Thinking of you, and here if you need to talk. ❤️

Best wishes,

Holly.

Schildpad

Not doing great. Feel really down and anxious. Actually I am petrified about the future about the uncertain. I am trying to cheer up watching telly etc. anyway I hope it will pass.

cheles99

Bless you felt the same this year stay strong a big hug sent

Billiegoat

It's heartbreaking to see how people are feeling at the moment. Big hugs to all x

Rosie_Scope

Hope everyone's coping okay, it's not an easy time. We're all here if you need to chat about it 🧡