Starmers Brother.

Doglover2
Doglover2 Online Community Member Posts: 318 Empowering
edited January 1 in Everyday life

Starmer pays tribute to 'wonderful' brother who died on Boxing Day .

Poor man couldn't hold down a job most of his life due to ill health. Such a shame his brother learnt no lessons for his brothers plight. I hope his sympathy and compassion stretched to the poor soul.. it's lacking for us.

https://news.sky.com/story/starmer-pays-tribute-to-wonderful-brother-who-died-on-boxing-day-13280517

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  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 4,260 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    @Doglover2 It's incredibly sad isn't it. And to lose him on Boxing day of all days is heartbreaking. 😞 Thoughts are with his family.

    From what I read (and appreciate you can't always believe what you read), but it's said he was quite protective of his brother. Often getting in to fights with bullies. ❤️

    All the best,

    Holly.

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Online Community Member Posts: 375 Pioneering

    I saw that on DM. Very sad.

    Politics aside, it's sad to lose a loved one, no matter who that person is.

    My thoughts go out to Keir Starmer at this sad time.

  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Online Community Member Posts: 318 Empowering

    @Ironside1990 yup. We lost my grandad v unexpectedly boxing day 16 years ago.

    It's Never easy losing anyone.

  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Online Community Member Posts: 318 Empowering

    @Holly_Scope as any sibling would i hope. I was always extremely protective of my three sisters.. being the eldest. Awful to have to fight the corner for someone who should have been treated with kindness as Nick Starmer should have been.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,552 Championing

    I find it sickening he can act so heartfelt for his brother and the rest of us we can work so I have no sympathy or believe a word his says

  • whistles
    whistles Online Community Member Posts: 2,059 Championing

    Please try to think about someone else besides yourself.

    It's not all about us.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,552 Championing

    Well I think it is I'm thinking for all the elderly who have and will suffer even when told how many will pass still didn't change it and many more things that has and will effect peoples life's greatly I'm a great empath I suppose for the goverment and certain people I'm not and I'm not afraid to be honest about that just because I don't agree with you or anyone who feels some sort of compassion for him that's perfectly fine

  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Online Community Member Posts: 64,458 Championing

    That's quite harsh don't you think? It doesn't matter what you or anyone else thinks, he's still lost a brother.

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Online Community Member Posts: 375 Pioneering

    It's devastating to lose a loved one. Even more so at Christmas time. It's my mam's anniversary today, so i know how he must be feeling. What should be a joyous time for many,will be a constant reminder that a loved one has died and you'll never see them again.

    It's important to remember that even though he's a politician, at the end of the day, he is still a human being and he's grieving.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 11,423 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Nick wasn't his brother, it's a horrible loss and came at a terrible time. Losing a family member is bad enough, but it really hits harder around the holidays. RIP Nick.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,552 Championing

    It may seems so everyone entitled to fell the way they feel

  • vikingqueen
    vikingqueen Scope Member Posts: 1,894 Championing

    I find your comments terrible @Catherine21 To loose anyone at any time is horrible for the family. It is only news because of who he was. Would you be as harsh with someone close you know who lost their life.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,552 Championing

    Thats absolutely fine my thinking is to recieve humanity and respect you have to show it No ceasefire elderly small businesses closing everyone is entitled to have thier own views and feelings he has shown no care in my eyes so no I don't feel sympathy for him why should I because you and many disagree that's fine I'm not saying you shouldn't feel the way do so pls don't do to me thankyou

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  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Online Community Member Posts: 318 Empowering
    edited December 2024

    My original point being, you'd think a man whose immediate family member so unwell throughout life would be a bit more understanding of all our plight. Nobody wants to lose a loved one,it's earth shattering. We may not like Starmer but I never revel in anybodys death. In fact maybe deleting this thread altogether would be a better idea.

  • Albus_Scope
    Albus_Scope Posts: 11,423 Scope Online Community Coordinator
    edited December 2024

    I think the media are currently painting Starmer in a very unkind light, but there have been no decisions made regarding benefits still, so all we have to go on is what the media tells us and as we all know, sensationalism sells! We all need to be taking what's being published with a huge pinch of salt right now and fact checking anything we read. I think Kier Starmers brother being long term sick (and with other health issues) gives him an idea of what people are going through.

    I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for now and sending the family my condolences.

    If you want the discussion deleted @Doglover2 just let me know before 6pm and I'll action it for you.

  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Online Community Member Posts: 64,458 Championing

    I'm going to be completely honest here and I find your comments rather harsh. My grandfather passed away on Christmas morning some 40 odd years ago and even though I was only a child at the time, I remember it very well. We were all devastated and my nan never did get over that. It's awful to lose a loved one anytime of the year but this time of year is always the worst.

    How would you feel if someone was this way towards you if you lost a loved one?

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,552 Championing

    Course I understand I'm 53 I experienced loss many times I simply so not feel sympathy for him as I explained my reasons he was told how many pensioners would pass this Xmas I could go on and on what do you want me to say the man represented the most vile criminals over the years he feels no way for you or anyone he's proved that many will agree many won't my heart can't feel something because other people don't feel the same I will leave at that

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Online Community Member Posts: 375 Pioneering

    It's awful how the media are slagging him off. I think he has enough on his plate atm.

  • whistles
    whistles Online Community Member Posts: 2,059 Championing

    We are allowed to feel how we feel. But to feel no sympathy for someone when they are dealing with loss, regardless of who that person is, I find shocking.

    Regardless of choices made and decisions done, grief is still very real.

    I experienced loss this Christmas. It's numb disbelief at the moment.