Starmers Brother.

Doglover2
Doglover2 Community Member Posts: 444 Empowering
edited January 2025 in Everyday life

Starmer pays tribute to 'wonderful' brother who died on Boxing Day .

Poor man couldn't hold down a job most of his life due to ill health. Such a shame his brother learnt no lessons for his brothers plight. I hope his sympathy and compassion stretched to the poor soul.. it's lacking for us.

https://news.sky.com/story/starmer-pays-tribute-to-wonderful-brother-who-died-on-boxing-day-13280517

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  • Holly_Scope
    Holly_Scope Posts: 5,307 Online Community Team

    @Doglover2 It's incredibly sad isn't it. And to lose him on Boxing day of all days is heartbreaking. 😞 Thoughts are with his family.

    From what I read (and appreciate you can't always believe what you read), but it's said he was quite protective of his brother. Often getting in to fights with bullies. ❤️

    All the best,

    Holly.

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Community Member Posts: 401 Pioneering

    I saw that on DM. Very sad.

    Politics aside, it's sad to lose a loved one, no matter who that person is.

    My thoughts go out to Keir Starmer at this sad time.

  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Community Member Posts: 444 Empowering

    @Ironside1990 yup. We lost my grandad v unexpectedly boxing day 16 years ago.

    It's Never easy losing anyone.

  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Community Member Posts: 444 Empowering

    @Holly_Scope as any sibling would i hope. I was always extremely protective of my three sisters.. being the eldest. Awful to have to fight the corner for someone who should have been treated with kindness as Nick Starmer should have been.

  • whistles
    whistles Community Member Posts: 2,074 Championing

    Please try to think about someone else besides yourself.

    It's not all about us.

  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Community Member Posts: 64,456 Championing

    That's quite harsh don't you think? It doesn't matter what you or anyone else thinks, he's still lost a brother.

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Community Member Posts: 401 Pioneering

    It's devastating to lose a loved one. Even more so at Christmas time. It's my mam's anniversary today, so i know how he must be feeling. What should be a joyous time for many,will be a constant reminder that a loved one has died and you'll never see them again.

    It's important to remember that even though he's a politician, at the end of the day, he is still a human being and he's grieving.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Nick wasn't his brother, it's a horrible loss and came at a terrible time. Losing a family member is bad enough, but it really hits harder around the holidays. RIP Nick.

  • vikingqueen
    vikingqueen Scope Member Posts: 2,011 Championing

    I find your comments terrible @Catherine21 To loose anyone at any time is horrible for the family. It is only news because of who he was. Would you be as harsh with someone close you know who lost their life.

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  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Community Member Posts: 444 Empowering
    edited December 2024

    My original point being, you'd think a man whose immediate family member so unwell throughout life would be a bit more understanding of all our plight. Nobody wants to lose a loved one,it's earth shattering. We may not like Starmer but I never revel in anybodys death. In fact maybe deleting this thread altogether would be a better idea.

  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing
    edited December 2024

    I think the media are currently painting Starmer in a very unkind light, but there have been no decisions made regarding benefits still, so all we have to go on is what the media tells us and as we all know, sensationalism sells! We all need to be taking what's being published with a huge pinch of salt right now and fact checking anything we read. I think Kier Starmers brother being long term sick (and with other health issues) gives him an idea of what people are going through.

    I'm just keeping my fingers crossed for now and sending the family my condolences.

    If you want the discussion deleted @Doglover2 just let me know before 6pm and I'll action it for you.

  • poppy123456
    poppy123456 Community Member Posts: 64,456 Championing

    I'm going to be completely honest here and I find your comments rather harsh. My grandfather passed away on Christmas morning some 40 odd years ago and even though I was only a child at the time, I remember it very well. We were all devastated and my nan never did get over that. It's awful to lose a loved one anytime of the year but this time of year is always the worst.

    How would you feel if someone was this way towards you if you lost a loved one?

  • Ironside1990
    Ironside1990 Community Member Posts: 401 Pioneering

    It's awful how the media are slagging him off. I think he has enough on his plate atm.

  • whistles
    whistles Community Member Posts: 2,074 Championing

    We are allowed to feel how we feel. But to feel no sympathy for someone when they are dealing with loss, regardless of who that person is, I find shocking.

    Regardless of choices made and decisions done, grief is still very real.

    I experienced loss this Christmas. It's numb disbelief at the moment.

  • Relinn
    Relinn Community Member Posts: 7 Connected

    I agree with what Catherine said.


    I’d also like to say that I don’t think Catherine was intending to come across heartless or provocative.


    what Catherine was trying to make the point of is that he has just lost his brother and it obviously hurts like hell.

    Hopefully this will be the wake up call the PM needs to do the right thing and change course. It is not too late to help thousands and thousands of people.


    sadly, I do not think the prime minister gives a damn about the public.

    All he is interested in is being stubborn and bowing to the unions.


    tragic time for the pm to lose a family member over Christmas but his government is ensuring hundreds and thousands of pensioners will die because of the last few months actions.


    pension credit isn’t the answer.


    I bet Starmers brother was ashamed by the PM’s decisions.


    rest in peace Mr Starmer.

    Sir Starmer, you have work to do!

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,455 Championing
  • Albus_Alumni
    Albus_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 11,423 Championing

    Sorry to hear about your loss @whistles it's never easy, no matter the time of year, but xmas just makes things hit harder I think. We're all here for you if you need to talk things through. ❤️

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,636 Championing
    edited January 2025

    Only if you pretend the last 14 years of Tory rule didn't happen!!!

    Truth is Catherine, if you wanted Jeremy Corbyn to get into power in 2017, you should not have voted Leave in 2016 but you did.

    Brexit, the Tories and their supporters have ruined this country not Sir Keir Starmer nor his learning-disabled brother.

  • judie
    judie Community Member Posts: 339 Empowering

    As a barrister there is no choice of who Starmer represented, it was his job - everyone is entitled to a defence in English law