Hi

fendi1234

anyone online I’m new here but I’m struggling to understand why my family and so called real friends can turn on me just because I’m disabled have few medical issues ,making me feel worthless out here ,so I found this group ,feel fre3 to talk to me anytime as Iv no one to talk to

fendi1234

I take it may be no one’s online ?
is this a live chat group ,can my own comments be deleted if it’s come out wrong as I voice my mesg out ?

Ranald

How's it going, @fendi1234?

This forum can have it's quieter times, try back later in the day when alot of members will be about.

All the best, mate.

Santosha12

Hello @fendi1234, Just wanted to say a very big welcome to you. I don't think you can delete or edit your own messages yet, I think it's only when you've wrote so many that you can then edit them but you can ask on here for the Admin to delete them. But please don't worry about that. You can always write a new message 😊.

I am so sorry that you're struggling; I am estranged from my sisters since 18 months ago because of appalling behaviour towards me since I got ill. And I experience that too from a friend still. I'm still working on accepting that as it's very sad and been a constant source of angst but despite the sadness that's caused, I also now don't have the harm that was caused for far too long towards me. But there's no getting away from the fact it's very isolating. I have 4 small dogs. Do you have any hobbies or interests?

It's been a long and difficult road for me that I'm still on; what I do know is nobody should make you feel, by their behaviour, or words, that you are worthless. It may be hard to feel sometimes but you are worth so much and are of value - to yourself and others - because of the unique individual that you are. Hold onto that.

I hope that you find this community a good source of support for you. And you're very welcome here! Take care of yourself too 😊.

Rosie_Scope

Please don't feel worthless @fendi1234, you're still an important person even if those people aren't being kind to you. I'm really sorry that your friends and family are acting that way and I hope the community can be a friendly place to chat.

As Ranald wrote, sometimes it can be quiet here at certain times but there's usually someone to talk to eventually ☺️

Do you live on your own or with family at the moment?

fendi1234

hi there thank you for your comments I have learning difficulties so I don’t know from posting the right place to replying to you properly I am grateful for this group as it seems that some of us have similar situations and a place I don’t feel judged I have a dog he’s a pug , I have no one else of lost interest in everything are used to have so much going for me and now I’m shut away thinking why god has life got so bad life’s so empty and No friends no one to talk to ,,,,, thanks for replying to me ,means a lot 💚can you reply individually to people or is it all on show in groups ,can we make friends here ? ,how do i see any replies or if anyone’s online pls let me no thanks

I also won’t learn how to see your messages and reply thank you

Rosie_Scope

You've posted in the right place @fendi1234 ☺️

Our chats are public so other members can see what we write.

There are some user guides here if you'd like to read about how things work:

Using the community

If you want to reply to someone's comment, quoting them is one way. Underneath each post, there's some words and small picture icons. Click '"Quote' and it will copy what someone has said into your comment box where you can write what you want to say. It'll also usually send them a notification so they know you've said something to them.

You can also tag people in a post by using the @ sign. Type @ then start typing their username and it should come up in a list. Click their name to confirm it. Sometimes this doesn't work, and it can be a bit tricky, so pressing the quote link is often easier.

If you use a mobile, you can see who's online by visiting the homepage, categories page, or recent discussions page of the community. Scroll right down to the bottom of the page. There's a box called 'Who's online' there. If you use a laptop or computer, this box is usually on the right hand side.

At the top of any page, there is a purple bar with links on it. To the right there are four icons, the second one looks a bit like a bell. If it shows up with a red circle and a number on it, that tells you that you have a notification. You can click the bell icon and a menu will pop up with links to where someone has tagged you or replied to a discussion you have created. You can then click the links to view what they have said.

You can change what notifications you get in your profile settings by ticking the boxes:

Notification preferences — Scope | Online Community

Sorry for the long post! I hope that's not too overwhelming, but please feel free to ask more questions if none of that makes sense ☺️

I love pugs! What's your pug's name?

fendi1234

my pugs names 💙🐾 he’s all Iv got he’s my best friend

, I do feel bad that I can’t get out and do as much as I want with him ….. again due the restrictions ,

It’s so nice outside yet I’m scared and don’t want face outside where I am as it’s not a nice or how others have made me feel ,I’d love to join groups may be even join in an event or with others who are also restricted ir feeling same way ,I’m grateful for you writing to me I can’t read that long message ,you have been helpful if I’m unsure I’ll post and ask in group how is everybody els today ?

does anyone have any recommendations or groups or places o can join to try help me want face public let my guard down help me try accept my personal disadvantages but share them with others who suffer in any ways

I’m also here if anyone wants to chat ,,

I’m soo soo lost atm I feel Iv been a prisoner for so long sick being judged and feeling excluded from everything …. Im proud Iv joined I didn’t want to at first I started getting panick attacks

I hope & pray 🙏 that I can try to learn to accept cope and hopefully talk openly or possibly join in activities or outings ect ,where are these places if there’s any trips or outings ? As I’m new to this

I’d like to feel there’s a bit hope out here 💚

fendi1234