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I'm thinking of getting a wheelchair, but my 13yo says she's appalled at the idea. Help?
Hi new to this kind off thing so please be patient,having just got back from a family holiday to Tenerife after finding it very hilly I decided to hire a mobility scooter as even on a flat surface walking is limited,what a difference it made I could join in on walks go out on my own saved my a lot of pain,im thinking of investing in one for home but I mentioned it to my 13yo she was appalled at the idea as she said it was embarrassing for her and would get the micky taken out of her,she is normally very supportive of me and understands my needs but this is something that i could really need any suggestions would be appreciated as I know how others especially children can effect each other,how have others handled all this many thanks.
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Yes I have got two young children and I have had mobility scooters for a very long time now.
I found young children in be more understanding than adults.
I have had numerous scooters for sometime now.
And I would be very happy in giving you some pointers.
Welcome to Scope's online community! It's great to have you on board. I hope you and your family had a nice time in Tenerife!
I'm sorry to hear about the situation that you're in. I've moved this post into our Disabled People category, where other members of our community will be able to share their advice.
@mossycow, do you have any ideas?
All you can do is sit her down and explain that the alternative for you is being left out of things and having little independence.
Tell her that you do care about how she is treated. However, if you let other people take your choices away by their bad behaviour then a person never stops giving in. That is a bad way to live.
It can be tough for kids to have a disabled parent and young carer groups allow them to explore these feelings.
Do a search on google to see what is on offer in your area.
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