who can help after lies on pip claim

susan48

@redhead53
is there a problem? Really if you feel there I’d just be direct and say

cripps

There really is some sad nasty people about, if you don’t like what people write stay away, this forum is for people with real problems that need real help and advice. If you have nothing nice to say don’t say anything at all . NC

redhead53

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redhead53

sorry forgot this bit i have pointed out to some in the click that i disagree with their attitude yet you claim i selected them  no the same click always make comments bigging you up as you do each other

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redhead53

whistles said:

This thread is turning offensive and will likely get closed.
When I queried someone replying to it, my concern was that it would do just that.

@Username_removed has let everyone know that bringing up an old post is fine. Oddly the anger has now been directed at him for pointing that out!

The other day I was accused of being a dwp spy.
Today part of a clique.
I am running out of hats to wear for all these new roles.

why defend mike he made snide comment to me as i posted on a thread not knowing the poster was banned as to you it was not me said you were a spy i defended you but we are back to the same few who defend each other the click??

Matilda

I've no comment to make on this particular thread.  But, what I've decided to do in general on threads in future is this.  If I think someone in all good faith has made a factual error, then in a civil manner,  I'll post what I understand the correct fact(s) to be.

On the other hand, if I think that someone has posted absolute twaddle and/or been rude then I'll ignore them.  Members will be able too see for themselves that the person concerned either is writing nonsense and/or is being offensive.  

Mark Twain said to never argue with fools; they'll drag you down to their level and win through sheer experience.

Mark Twain was right.  Life's too short not to follow his advice.

whistles

Maybe it is worth closing some threads that are from those who are banned. 
It prevents this type of thing occurring.

redhead53

Victoriad said:

Polite bit of advice now.......please stop sniffing those wine gums as you are not making any sense whatsoever

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redhead53

Username_removed said:

I’ve just hit the “Ignore” button. Reasonably confident it won’t be needed after tomorrow morning.

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Matilda

If you 'ignore' someone, what does that actually mean in practice?  Does it only mean that they can't post on your wall?

whistles

Username_removed said:

Good question. Don’t know. It stops you seeing anything they post but doesn’t stop the email notifications that they’ve posted. It also doesn’t stop you seeing their posts if someone else quotes them. Beyond that... don’t know.

I have switched all email notifications off. It would depend if you have it set to notify you of certain categories? 

We do have an ignore button. 
We also have a finger to scroll past any comments and ignore. 
That requires some basic good manners and maturity, where as some people just like to shout the loudest.

whistles

Matilda said:

If you 'ignore' someone, what does that actually mean in practice?  Does it only mean that they can't post on your wall?

It means you do not see anything they post.
But if someone quotes them you will, but can simply read on.
The wall no idea. I remove wall posts, hate them.

debbiedo49

It’s so easy for some people to get angry and to keep coming back on here to vent. Sometimes it’s better to logout and calm down and think about our actions. This site is here to help people. It does help people. It’s not here for fighting. Think about how fighting is upsetting for many members desperately seeking help on here who may be at the end of their last hope. 
If people don’t like the site don’t use it unless they need advice. It’s  not Scopebook. 

Matilda

OK, thanks Whistles.

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