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josiedo
josiedo Member Posts: 1 Listener
Hi I am feeling guilty as I have left my husband of 47 years and the last 12 years since his brain hemorage he has been mentally abusive to me and I just reached a stage where I couldn’t deal with it! However I still look after him get his shopping, medication and help where I can 

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  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,389 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @josiedo   Pleased to meet you welcome.

    Thank you for joining and sharing .  Sorry what has happened.

    I am sure there will be community members who can identify what you are going through.

    Please can I suggest speak to a member of our team who can give you relevant information to your issues.  Organisations that might you need to speak to.

    Something to consider.  

    0808 800 3333.

    We are a friendly, supportive community. Care and share.

    Please take care

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  • Ami2301
    Ami2301 Community Co-Production Group Posts: 7,946 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @josiedo welcome to the community! Sorry to hear this, I know it’s easier said than done but try not to feel guilty. As awful as to what happened to your husband, you need to be happy within yourself and if this was affecting you over a long period of time, with no signs of being resolved, then you’ve done the right thing.

    We are always here :)
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  • thespiceman
    thespiceman Member Posts: 6,389 Disability Gamechanger
    Hello @josiedo In reply to my earlier post. I thought I should give the details of Women's Aid 

    Helpline 0808 2000 247.  If you need to talk to some one about this, no one should suffer like you have.

    Website https// wwwwomensaid.org.uk.

    Hope that helps. We are here to listen to anytime you wish to . That is the important thing you need to know.

    Please take care

    @thespiceman



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  • steve51
    steve51 Member Posts: 7,154 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @josiedo

    Welcome it’s great to meet you today.

    Yes I had a Brain Hemmorage myself.
    Luckily I didn’t turn nasty.

    But believe me I have seen quite a few since.

    Please please if there’s anything that I can help/support you with please let me know?????

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