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Hello @Jpc Thank you for your post. Sorry to hear this.
I do understand it may be difficult to explain your problems with your disabilities or illness or conditions to your Mother.
I think you have to be upfront and say. Need you there. Write it down in a letter explaining the reason why what is going to happen at the assessment.
Why and what you are doing. Be and say. I know sometimes to be honest and open how things are.
Especially how you cope.
Mention the reasons.
I had this one time asked a friend to come with me.
He did not know my past history. Especially personal stuff . So had to disclose it to him in a form of a letter.
He was wonderful. Understanding, compassionate. Had empathy.
One final point. I never had ever recorded any interview and assessment. I think what is important is to look at advice and guidance, sensible, practical guidance on this forum.
Plenty of it. Including from former assessors and our community members who have been through many an assessment.
Up to you. Your choice. Sounds too complicated. Setting up equipment. If you cannot do it.
I have been doing benefits a long time over twenty plus years and have had in my experience.
Look at the booklet, they give you. Be honest and open with any questions.
That is what I have always have done.
What is important is you have some one. Your Mother.
Meet so many who have not any one to come.
Need to focus on the positivity's.
Wish you the best for a successful outcome.
We are here to support you.
Take care.
@thespiceman
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