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stonker01 said: Having put in an MR for pip and speaking to 4 managers over the phone about it. It was put as urgent I have spoken again to the dwp who have said a letter has been sent out but it hasn't updated on the system so she can't see it yet She said she could see that it was noted to be dealt with asap Could this be a positive thing I'm dreading the letter
stonker01 said: struggle2222 i really feel for you because it seems to be a pointless process to go through wasting numerous of weeks and causing so much distress.In my eyes it's an act of cruelty because only a small amount of people succeed at this point but to get your tribunal you have to do it.If you've phoned them to tell them your doing an MR make sure you tell them to note on your records that you will be putting in writing so they don't start the process.I phoned them to say an MR will be happening and I gave a brief of why then I got a text message saying you have asked us to look at your claim again so I phoned and they were going to use my call I said no I'm putting it in writing so she noted it. I also sent it recorded delivery.It's very stressful but try to plan ahead in your mind that tribunal is likely.Finding this page has helped me cope with the stress to see we arent alone going through this and to see but my partner isn't doing good her meds have had to be increased and also been prescribed sedatives, she's lost weight and talking awful thoughts
stonker01 said: Things have to change soon.It's quite clear that assessors are telling pork pies on reports ... Why though I don't understand.I've been on other forums on the internet and the amount of people saying lies are on reports is barbaric. This can't carry on for long surely I bet the DWP are tired of hearing this and it has to be costing them more money in the long term with the amount of successful tribunals. Good luck with your MR.
stonker01 said: That's exactly what I thought of my partners I was reading it over and over as I just couldn't get over the false information.My partner has apparently said she is absolutely fine with everything.I've done research on my partners assessor and he has 2 jobs one being a liar and the other one isn't far from us and I've struggled not to go to the place of work and tell him and his colleagues what he has done and caused.
stonker01 said: Its just cruel struggle2222 but ive read tribunals are different and they dont work for the dwp and have a very high success rate only problem is the waiting time because they have a huge back log
stonker01 said: I've been tempted so bad. My partner has been through hell I know her childhood and it was an horrendous one all I can say is she didn't have a childhood at all.So there's no family on her side due to this.It took years in blibs and blabs for her to tell me things I know there's more I don't know. I never bring it up it's rare she does and it's not nice when she does.I know it's all in her mind everyday of her life and she has never ever left the house without me and it's rare she does. It's people she has a problem with, she doesn't like to be near them. Strangers are a no no so you can imagine the state she was in leading up to and the day of her assessment. It was awful for me I feel so guilty that I couldn't fix it so she didn't have to do it .It was very clear for anyone there to see a very distressed person so this assessor to do this to such a vunerable person makes my blood boil he had the cheek to say to her he won't go into detail and will be as quick as he can as he didn't want to cause anymore distress My job role is to protect and care for my partner and I failed
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