Thank you all.

VOB

I would just like to say s huge thankyou to everyone on here who had messaged me with kind words and very valuable information. There are to many to answer individually. It doesn't get much better than having support and advice from people who have experienced life events first hand.
I will go through all the comments tonight and make myself s list.
Once again Thankyou.
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thespiceman

Hello @VOB   Pleasure to help you please anytime just tag my name. Happy to help be supportive.
You are not alone, if I can help further or need a chat or need to ask anything. Get in touch.
Please keep safe and warm, chilly evening .
Please take care.

@thespiceman

Adrian_Scope

As Spiceman said @VOB,  if you need anything at all, just shout!