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My real dad he is very ill

meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
Hi my father doctor call she said you dad not well at all he ask docktor to call me I was upset but he left me when I was 7 months old in Germany I found him when I was 15   he done lot bad think for me now he ask me  why I feal bad 

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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - it's good to hear from you, but not with such news. Please do not feel bad.....perhaps your Dad is feeling sorry about the past, as he is still thinking about you.
    Try and have a good day. Are you with your daughter now? I hope so. Take care. :)
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - I hope you are OK, and managed to enjoy a good Christmas visit with your daughter. :)
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    My dougther have kovid19 this xmas she is self isolated I am not manage see her 😢😢
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Thank you so much this year not good at all my dad he did not like father he done lot bad thing for me I am never give him my dougther got kovid but she not show anything she self isolated at her own house and husband mum big health problem now my dougther keep call me if I am ok ate my food she order meal for me make sure I ate my meal but I am not ate  I have problem for eating I hope this year good for all 
  • Tori_ScopeTori_Scope Posts: 4,010

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    I'm sorry to hear that your daughter has coronavirus @meymay93. Is she okay? I'm sure it must have been hard not being able to see her, but she's just looking out for your health. Do you not have much of an appetite still? You don't have to see or forgive your dad if you don't want to, either. It's entirely up to you. 
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    edited December 2020
    Hi @meymay93 - I am sorry your daughter has Covid-19 and had to self isolate with her husband so you could not see her on Christmas Day. It is good you that she is phoning you, and keeping in touch that way. I am sorry you still do not feel like eating. Your GP should know that you still have a poor appetite and cannot eat. Does your GP ring to see how you are getting on?
    My best wishes that you and your family will have a healthy and better New Year. :)
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi  
    Before my gp she call every week I am doing but not now this time covid she bizzy today I want to book apt because I got some problem came up my right breast under when tuch very pain full to the my arm  because of kovid I don't want to take my gp time last couple of week very pain full I wish happy new year all my dougther call her work friend kovid 2 person they are in hospital critical  condition nurse doctor under pressure now I wish I am healthy help them all some way my wish I get better support people  thank you so much I get support scope at all time now i know i am not alone i got big family scope is my family now 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    @meymay93 - please know that contacting your GP about any new problems, or ones you already have, is the right thing to do. Your GP is there to help you despite Covid-19. Your GP will have time for you, as well as anyone that has Covid-19. Please do book a telephone appointment; your lovely GP will want to know, and help you too.
    You certainly are an important member of Scope's family, and not alone.....please look after yourself by talking to your GP. You can help people again in some way if you talk to your GP and look after your own health first. I know how important caring for others has been to you.
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    I spoke my gp today I tell my story she said she monitor next 7 till 10 days if not get better send me hospital  because of kovid  danger   I have big family scope and my gp I am so glad if I am get better I have to something to help out happy new year scope team lot love 😘😘 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - and a Happy, & healthy New Year to you. :) Pleased you spoke to your GP and she is helping you. Lots of love from all at Scope <3
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Happy new year scope team lot love she said wait 7 till 10 day she monitor on me I was on my own new year eve because kovid my dougther need stay home self isolated bad time now not happy at all 😢😢
  • lisathomas50lisathomas50 Member Posts: 3,785 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi sorry your daughter has corona virus hope she is getting better I am sorry about what happend with your dad in the past but the choice is yours  you need to do what's best for you hope this year will be a better one for you 

    I have eating problems  its hard to eat sometimes my dr gave me fortie sips its like a milk shake I have to have three times a day  if your eating is getting worse it may be helpful for you to speak to your dr 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - I was wondering how you are as you said your GP was going to monitor you. How is your daughter? I hope things are getting a little better for you both. :)
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Thank you so much for checked on me I lose 2 friend from kovid  I am so upset 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Oh @meymay93 - no wonder you are upset. Covid-19 is a dreadful thing. My daughter-in-law lost her Uncle in the summer due to Covid, and I know how upset she was. I hope the vaccinations that are being given will give us all more hope that fewer lives will be lost. We have to hope....Sending you a hug hoping you and your daughter are keeping well. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Thank you so much she was long time friend her dougther my dougther grow together when I was when my dougher baby she she look after her some time she came cook for me broke my heart this kovid take life all please stay home no body wants lose 
  • Cher_ScopeCher_Scope Posts: 3,311

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    Aww @meymay93 I'm sorry to hear that your loved ones have been poorly with covid.  You are right, we need to stay home and stay safe.   <3   We are here whenever you need us.
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - has your daughter recovered from Covid? How is your health now?
    I am staying at home; the more people that can do this the better. My daughter is working from home, but my son works in a food shop, so he has been working all the time. Take care. :)
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi  
    We all need to stay home since last 2 week lot friend and my friend she use came cook for me stay look after me I lost her to i am really upset cry 😢 💔 
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi sory 
    Late answer i lost lot my friend family from kovid I am very down now not came out from bed I just want to go my self I am really upset 
  • Cher_ScopeCher_Scope Posts: 3,311

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    edited January 21

    @Meymay93 Hello and I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend.  This must be really difficult as I know how big a support they were to you  :(

    It’s completely understandable for you to be so upset and I’d recommend getting in touch with your GP to talk more about how you’re feeling if you haven’t already. If it ever becomes too much and you feel like you might hurt yourself, make sure to call 999 and ask for an ambulance straight away.  Also, if you want to speak to someone anytime, you can:

    I’ve sent an email to you to talk more about practical support, but in the mean-time, all of us at Scope send our condolences.  Make sure to look after yourself and lean on your loved ones for comfort <3

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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Dear @meymay93 - has your daughter been to see you? You need to look after yourself for her, and remember your Scope family too.....I am sending you a gentle hug <3
    I am pleased Cher is helping too; I will leave you to read her email. Remember we are all here to talk to any time.
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    My dougther call me and came see from balcony but not much we can't make still very upset and worrying 😔 
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi  
    She was 24/7 my best friend goes away now gone me and her share lot thing together her little dog i am bad her last cook she was put frozen side now I can't touch 😭😭😭
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    My dougther her best friend support on me my friend dougther came today left something she give me this covid must go i don't want lose any more my dougther best friend support me now my dougther cook me weekly but I don't eat my friend not came back again 😒 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - it is so awful at the moment. I see my son and ache to hug him, but we have to stay safe.
    Your best friend was wonderful and cared for you a lot. It is lovely you shared so much together and enjoyed seeing her little puppy too. You meant such a lot to her, which is why she helped you so much. You need to look after yourself now because of her as well, as that was what she wanted.
    As Cher has mentioned, please do talk to your lovely GP as she will help.
    You mean a lot to me too, so please look after yourself.
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Since she is gone I am not happy because we share lot thing together her dougher keep little pupy.i wish that pupy whit me I told her if you go holiday or something live pupy whit me my dougther friend she is gone take me semetry but my dougther said now is not good idae now my dougther friend came do things for me and my neighbours I am not came out bed at all upsetting worrying cry 
  • Ross_ScopeRoss_Scope Posts: 3,091

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    Hi @meymay93

    I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It must be hard and it's completely understandable that you haven't felt good at all lately.

    I'm glad your neighbours and other friend are helping you out so much, and fingers crossed you will be able to go to the cemetery soon. Please remember to take care of yourself as your friend will have wanted, and ensure that you discuss things with your GP if you are struggling with the grief.
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - how lovely that your friend's daughter is helping you. She will have memories to share with you about her Mum. Does she bring the puppy to see you? It is good your neighbours are also helping. You must mean a lot to them too.
    I hope you have spoken to your GP to let them know how you are, and how you are feeling. Sending you a gentle hug. <3
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Not really not well at all feal  upset but I am not call my gp because of now pandemic they are bizzy people die I don't want to take their time i am upsetting at moment  just stay on my own 😭😭
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - I know because of the pandemic our GPs are also busy, but they are still there for us. Please talk to your GP. I know you are not feeling well, and very upset, but your lovely GP would want to know to help you. Your Scope family also wants the best for you. Please talk to your GP.
    May I ask, are you German, or Austrian? I do not know your country of birth, but I can speak a little German, and perhaps you might help me practice? Your English is so good.
  • Tori_ScopeTori_Scope Posts: 4,010

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    I agree that you shouldn't feel as though you can't contact your GP @meymay93. They're there to help you :) 
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    edited February 7
    Hi @meymay93 - How are you? Did you manage to talk to your GP? Sending you my best wishes as always. :)
  • 11190821119082 Posts: 258 Member
    I am so sorry to hear that it must be very challenging for you right,
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    How are you @meymay93 - your Scope family have not heard from you for a while. I hope you are feeling a little better, and your GP has been able to help. It would be lovely to hear from you. :)
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Sorry my fone was broke and I forgotten my password my dougther came after long time she fix for me I got lot pain all over body now my ankle  had bad problem my join  atratis body tall they said wait apt from physio thank you so much support big family I hope not forgotten again my password ❤ 🙏 
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Great to hear from you @meymay93 - pleased you got your phone fixed. That is good that you will get some physio, and I hope you do not have to wait too long for an appointment. You will have to write your password down if you are like me. I would not be able to remember mine!!
    I am sorry you still have so much pain. I have been thinking about you often, so it really is lovely to hear from you again. <3
  • Cher_ScopeCher_Scope Posts: 3,311

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    Hello @meymay93 and @chiarieds too!

    It's lovely to see you both on our community and I'm glad to hear your phone is mended @meymay93.  Remember we are only ever a message away so do get in touch if you need us.

    I hope you both have lovely weekends :) 
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    Thank you so much you near to me but last time I put my key to fridge l look every where 🤔 😅 then my friend found my key inside fridge I am forgetful  niw
  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - I once put my purse in the fridge, so I am just as forgetful. :) It took me a long time to find it too. My son also has a bad memory, so we have to remind each other all the time!
  • meymay93meymay93 Posts: 148 Member
    Hi 
    My memory bad my pill some time I take then I forget if I take or not take double up I took now I am on my own my dougther friend came give my tablet
  • Adrian_ScopeAdrian_Scope Testing team Posts: 7,924

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    Good morning @meyma93, does your daughter's friend help with all of your medication now?
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  • chiariedschiarieds Member Posts: 7,891 Disability Gamechanger
    Hi @meymay93 - just wondering how you are. Will you be able to see your daughter over the Easter holidays? I do hope so. :)
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