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@Meymay93 Hello and I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. This must be really difficult as I know how big a support they were to you
It’s completely understandable for you to be so upset and I’d recommend getting in touch with your GP to talk more about how you’re feeling if you haven’t already. If it ever becomes too much and you feel like you might hurt yourself, make sure to call 999 and ask for an ambulance straight away. Also, if you want to speak to someone anytime, you can:
- Call The Samaritans on 116 123 or email them at jo@samaritans.org.
- Text ‘SHOUT’ to 85258 to speak to a trained crisis volunteer at SHOUT
I’ve sent an email to you to talk more about practical support, but in the mean-time, all of us at Scope send our condolences. Make sure to look after yourself and lean on your loved ones for comfort
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Dear @meymay93 - has your daughter been to see you? You need to look after yourself for her, and remember your Scope family too.....I am sending you a gentle hugI am pleased Cher is helping too; I will leave you to read her email. Remember we are all here to talk to any time.
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My dougther call me and came see from balcony but not much we can't make still very upset and worrying ? -
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She was 24/7 my best friend goes away now gone me and her share lot thing together her little dog i am bad her last cook she was put frozen side now I can't touch ??? -
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My dougther her best friend support on me my friend dougther came today left something she give me this covid must go i don't want lose any more my dougther best friend support me now my dougther cook me weekly but I don't eat my friend not came back again ? -
Hi @meymay93 - it is so awful at the moment. I see my son and ache to hug him, but we have to stay safe.Your best friend was wonderful and cared for you a lot. It is lovely you shared so much together and enjoyed seeing her little puppy too. You meant such a lot to her, which is why she helped you so much. You need to look after yourself now because of her as well, as that was what she wanted.As Cher has mentioned, please do talk to your lovely GP as she will help.You mean a lot to me too, so please look after yourself.
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Since she is gone I am not happy because we share lot thing together her dougher keep little pupy.i wish that pupy whit me I told her if you go holiday or something live pupy whit me my dougther friend she is gone take me semetry but my dougther said now is not good idae now my dougther friend came do things for me and my neighbours I am not came out bed at all upsetting worrying cry -
Hi @meymay93
I'm very sorry to hear about the loss of your friend. It must be hard and it's completely understandable that you haven't felt good at all lately.
I'm glad your neighbours and other friend are helping you out so much, and fingers crossed you will be able to go to the cemetery soon. Please remember to take care of yourself as your friend will have wanted, and ensure that you discuss things with your GP if you are struggling with the grief.Online Community CoordinatorConcerned about another member's safety or wellbeing? Flag your concerns with us.
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Hi @meymay93 - how lovely that your friend's daughter is helping you. She will have memories to share with you about her Mum. Does she bring the puppy to see you? It is good your neighbours are also helping. You must mean a lot to them too.I hope you have spoken to your GP to let them know how you are, and how you are feeling. Sending you a gentle hug.
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Not really not well at all feal upset but I am not call my gp because of now pandemic they are bizzy people die I don't want to take their time i am upsetting at moment just stay on my own ?? -
Hi @meymay93 - I know because of the pandemic our GPs are also busy, but they are still there for us. Please talk to your GP. I know you are not feeling well, and very upset, but your lovely GP would want to know to help you. Your Scope family also wants the best for you. Please talk to your GP.May I ask, are you German, or Austrian? I do not know your country of birth, but I can speak a little German, and perhaps you might help me practice? Your English is so good.
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I agree that you shouldn't feel as though you can't contact your GP @meymay93. They're there to help you
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Hi @meymay93 - How are you? Did you manage to talk to your GP? Sending you my best wishes as always.
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I am so sorry to hear that it must be very challenging for you right,
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How are you @meymay93 - your Scope family have not heard from you for a while. I hope you are feeling a little better, and your GP has been able to help. It would be lovely to hear from you.
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Sorry my fone was broke and I forgotten my password my dougther came after long time she fix for me I got lot pain all over body now my ankle had bad problem my join atratis body tall they said wait apt from physio thank you so much support big family I hope not forgotten again my password ❤ ? -
Great to hear from you @meymay93 - pleased you got your phone fixed. That is good that you will get some physio, and I hope you do not have to wait too long for an appointment. You will have to write your password down if you are like me. I would not be able to remember mine!!I am sorry you still have so much pain. I have been thinking about you often, so it really is lovely to hear from you again.
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Hello @meymay93 and @chiarieds too!
It's lovely to see you both on our community and I'm glad to hear your phone is mended @meymay93. Remember we are only ever a message away so do get in touch if you need us.
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Thank you @Cher_Scope
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Thank you so much you near to me but last time I put my key to fridge l look every where ? ? then my friend found my key inside fridge I am forgetful niw
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