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bedroom doubts
pattern1991
Member Posts: 31 Courageous
how do people quieten doubts that the love you just made wasn't as enjoyable for him due to your disability even if he says it was amazing
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I suppose it is about self confidence
Having a disability doesnt mean sex isnt as enjoyable for your partner it's about your feelings for each other and how you express them
If he says it is amazing then believe him
Scope community team
I think you've hit the nail on the head there about quietening doubts. Those doubts you have probably come from a critical inner voice that ultimately wants the best for you, but can sometimes misread situations. The evidence out there doesn't back up any inkling that the sex you had with your partner was disappointing, in-fact quite the opposite, he said it was 'amazing'! Try to take it easy on yourself and know that your impairment doesn't detract from your sexuality. Enjoy those intimate moments
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Just enjoy the moment and try and relax and not think about how you are performing