Finish the sentence, part 1!

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  • peteskinner
    peteskinner Online Community Member Posts: 50 Connected
    Hi Annie yes I know the feeling, life can be pretty uncomfortable tc 
  • TerryG
    TerryG Online Community Member Posts: 39 Contributor
    GUILTY 

    A lot of people who have issues are constantly questioned,assessed by people who have no medical qualification in the area,areas each individual suffer from.
    They generalise conditions to how they see them themselves,or by what's written in a book.
    A lot of disabled people constantly have there integrity questioned,to where they have feelings of guilt over taking benefits,asking for help.
  • Tori_Scope
    Tori_Scope Scope Posts: 12,467 Championing
    That's a good point @terryg :) I imagine many others feel the same as you, unfortunately! Blame is often unfairly and inaccurately placed on disabled people, and little room is left for listening, learning, and understanding.
  • J2R2J
    J2R2J Online Community Member Posts: 12 Connected
    Being different in any way is often a trigger for Doubting Thomas’s to assume a fault somewhere. I have reasons to believe it is opportunistic degrading used by some who have to tread on others to feel better in themselves.

    There is no reason for someone to be seen at fault for being different, so it is not a misjudgement, it is fuelled by distorted views and the opportunity to use someone as a stepping stone.

    I’ve been treated like this but managed to rise above the many who put me down, so like a chain is only as strong as its weakest link, these bullies (or whatever) become the weakest link and are trying to bring others down to below their level.

    Just like how cowards on The Weakest Link use the power of the vote and look for opportunities to justify their decision to make the strongest look the weakest.

    There is no substance in undermining anyone like this, irrespective of whether they are different and capable or different and need help.

    These bullies are as different to you as you are to them. Would they like to be seen as different?
  • Maurice123
    Maurice123 Online Community Member Posts: 111 Empowering
    I think that Stephen Hawking was a bit of a bully, but he was a very clever man who proved his intellect was superior to most people. He contributed to the world of science in a way that most of us will never achieve and managed it despite crippling injuries. Just because you are disabled you are not stupid. 
  • Jaynique
    Jaynique Online Community Member Posts: 1 Listener
    Disabled doesn’t mean:

    *That we are Invisible 

    *That we are Unworthy

    *That we lack substance 

    *That we are Extinct or ‘Too Far Gone’

    We’re are disabled not dead! 

  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,922 Championing
    Thanks everyone for continuing to contribute to this thread. You have all raised some really key points  :)
  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 13,826 Championing
    We aren't like an able bodied person.