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  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    Bern 12 degrees cold

    No I. Hate eurovision

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    How do you all react if one of your daughters treated you like a child

    I accidentally sent a text message to one of my daughters that was meant for someone else

    She Treats me like a child and they wonder why I don't tell them every single thing that happens in my life

    She's just had a right go at me, why, because I never told her I have Sally the kitten. I. Got her in Feb

    I lost Toby on 12 Jan and was distraught, still am

    So yes I have a few cats, so what, I don't drjnk or smoke, I've no partner, I live alone and I'm. Passionate about animals

    Surely at my age I'm. Old enough to make my own decisions

    So why am. I shaking and shivering then

    As I know she will tell her sisters so Il get it from all 3

    Its not like I've committed a crime

    I'm. So lonely cats give me an much comfort

    She's a clean phobic and says I'm absolutely ridiculous and I should not have got another

    Told me to get a car instead then I won't keep relying on other people if I need to go somewhere

    That hurt

    I can't afford to get a car

    I can't even drive

    Now I'm. Shaking

    Isnt it silly

    Am. I mad as Sge says fir getting another kitten

    I feel very upset now

    My fault for not telling them but surely I can please myself without disapproval from my daughter

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Morning all.

    That was pretty nasty of her @Amberpearl ,you don't need anyone's permission to get a pet.

    One of our neighbours spends thousands of pounds on dogs and keeps them for a few weeks before giving them away;she's in a council house and owes over £10k in rent.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing
    edited May 18

    So do I @Amberpearl,but I had a watch along with some posters on another forum and we had a good laugh about how awful it was.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    Omg

    Said its true I'm 59 next month and my 31 year old daughter who will never get pets spoke to me like I've done something illegal. I. Feel like I'm 10 years old now

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 2,906 Championing

    Morning all.

    Its a beautiful sunny day here and I am going out later to see a live band in a beer garden.

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    People who don't/won't have pets can never understand what they mean to us.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    Exactly

    I hoover up keep house clean as a can

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,586 Championing

    Never apologise for being a kind caring responsible cat owner they give us so much joy my daughter never understood how mad I am over fifi pixie and God rest her soul perds until she got her own dog luna now she gets it I remember I started dating someone and he was constantly moaning about hairs I said adios amigo no way this is thier home

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Hairs,paw prints,nose art on the windows;all part of the joys of pet ownership.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    Exactly

    I've had cats all my life

    Their my world

    I'm. Not nuts

    I'm passionate about cats

  • Lou67
    Lou67 Online Community Member Posts: 8,736 Championing

    Morning all I haven’t been on for a while but just wanted to pop on and say hello and that I hope yous are all doing well.

    @Marydoll5
    Hiya Mary I’m not sure what day the wedding is and I hope I haven’t missed it, I hope yous have the mist beautiful day. 💗

    @Sandy_123
    I’m so glad your having a great holiday enjoy the rest of week ❤️

    @Amberpearl
    I’m sorry to read how your daughters spoken to you, it’s so unfair I know how much you love your pets and you’ve had such a hard time over the past year with loosing a couple of your well loved pets, stay strong I hope things get better between you and your daughter soon.

    @Teigr
    Hiya I hope you and the family are doing well.

    ❤️

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing

    I lost 3 cats last summer and 1 this January

    There everything to me, there the only thing keeping me going tbh

    I dont ever interfere in their life's, yet she things it's ok to say I'm b****u ridiculous

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 6,610 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Morning everyone!

    Nice to see you popping on @Lou67, hope you've been keeping well ☺️

    Sorry to hear you're having troubles with your daughter @Amberpearl, I hope things calm down soon. It's clear to us all how much you love your cats 💛

  • Teigr
    Teigr Online Community Member Posts: 5,078 Championing

    Afternoon all.

    Nice to see you @Lou67 ,I hope you and yours are good.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Online Community Member Posts: 2,906 Championing

    Good afternoon all.

    I have woken up feeling so tired but I had a great weekend out with friends.

    Take care everyone.

  • chiarieds
    chiarieds Online Community Member Posts: 17,155 Championing

    Hello everyone & great to see you posting @Lou67 😊

    My poor little cat Shadow is in surgery at the moment having 2 large bladder stones removed. I'm doing loads of housework & washing to keep myself occupied!

    Hope you're all keeping as well as can be @Sandy_123 @Marydoll5 @Teigr & @Amberpearl & @Catherine21

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Online Community Member Posts: 3,019 Championing
  • Elvisdog
    Elvisdog Online Community Member Posts: 178 Empowering

    I feel your frustration @Amberpearl I love my indoor cat snd my 13yr dog. I'll be lost when my dog passes i think about it alot as he is showing his age now..

    When my son persuaded me to have the cat, I was scared what my mum would say. She wasn't thrilled when she found out. But after meeting her a few times, zharley won her over, even my dad strokes her.

    I won't have another dog, they would need more attention, than I'm able to give.

    Ii hope you are enjoying your new kitten, im the same age as you , I have to remind my mum and lads.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 7,586 Championing

    OOh Bless you so many amazing things vets can do the hardest