If you can, plan ahead , a success story

I was born with cerable palsy, .My parents were told that I would never be able to read, walk and speak properly. However thanks to their support I managed to overcome most of these difficulties. I started working with a few minor jobs until my early 30s. I was then fortunate enough to find a well paid job, get married and buy a house. At the time of buying the house we took out various insurance to cover ill health ect, even though it was very expensive to cover me. After 25 years sadly my health has slowly got worse and my job pensioned me off last year. So there I was in my mid 50s unemployed with a mortgage my wife and a child. Fortunate for me all these insurance I have paid into for many years have paid out. My mortgage has now been paid off and between my pension and income insurance we are OK. Now if we had not planned ahead with insurance, the story would have been very different. For anyone who is thinking of getting on the property ladder, do consider having the proper cover, you never know when you may need it.
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Well done you, fantastic that you defied the doctors and built a full life for yourself. Congratulations also on thinking ahead with insurance plans. However I have heard that some insurance companies try hard not to pay out these days so research at Which? etc would be a good step for anyone planning to buy insurance. Thanks for your wise and kind advice.
Best wishes, A
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Oops just liked my own comment by accident!
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Well done, Fuzzy, for living a good life. I know someone with cerebral palsy who's parents were told, by doctors, to put her in a home and, virtually, forget about her as she's need round the clock care and will never walk, read or speak properly! This was in the 1960s but, still, what an attitude?! Grrr! Her lovely parents ignored the advice and brought her up in a loving home and exercised those legs 'til they worked. When she was a child they bought her a trike and upgraded it as she grew. She left home in her 30s, held down a part-time job and ran her own home. She's now retired and still totally independent.
Good advice about insurance.
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Thank you for this Fuzzy200. Glad that with your great forward planning that you are ok financially. I suddenly became at work and eventually lost my job due to ill health. No insurance. I did cash in a work pension so early that I lost 40% of it. Mortgage is paid but we couldn’t afford to heat the house or eat properly for two years. I wished that I had thought of taking out insurance as this would have helped.
It is such a helpful tip. Thank you. Wishing you all the best.2 -
Thank you for sharing @Fuzzy200 This is a great message to share with our community. Forward thinking allows you to live your life in the best possible way, which is clear to see you have, with the security in place if it's ever needed.
Best wishes.
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HI @Fuzzy200
Thank you very much for sharing your story, a fascinating read😁0
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