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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Ive decided i am not going to burden anyone here

    Its not fair

    Im not a nice person anymore

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 2,574 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    @Catherine21 I'm sorry you're feeling so low today. The haircut might make you feel better. I know I always feel anxious about the hairdresser but I feel great afterwards. I'm due another visit actually, my split ends are so bad!

    @Strawberry1 it's so nice to see you back. You're not a burden and you are a nice person. You can share your feelings here with us if you feel comfortable to.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Thank you @Rachel_Scope

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,031 Championing

    @Catherine 21 So sorry you are feeling so low.Iosing a dog in my personal opinion is worse than losing a human relation ( I know some are going to be utterly shocked by my statement.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,821 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1080701#Comment_1080701

    Its so upsetting when someone lets you down all good people with a good heart gets hurt as you are so kind you feel it more as I can imagine you was a very good friend and you definitely are one of lifes kind souls

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,821 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1080722#Comment_1080722

    Its heartbreaking she was my world she understood me was ao connected i miss her terribly my one true love in this life no I agree she was my child im like a zombie getting through the hours thankyou Jane hope your OK x Christmas will be hard my daughter always comes over to spend time and catch up with fifi shes left a big void

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    @Catherine21 , when a disagreement takes place there are two people in the situation .

    I am prepared to take the fact that i may have played a part too .

    I think i am upset because we arent talking .

    Thank you for you support

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Sorry to hear your very sad news @Catherine21

    My heart goes out to you

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,821 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1080728#Comment_1080728

    Thankyou

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Your welcome @Catherine21

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,031 Championing

    @Catherine21 Yes fifi is irreplaceable and because she was that special she has left a huge hole in your life.It represents though how much you filled her life.Because you obviously shared such a close bond,you are missing that connection.I think they ( our dogs are still around us when they pass although we can't see them).I'm not sure if you've felt her presence at all? Perhaps its too soon.She will always be part of you because you were chosen for her in some way.I know that your heart utterly feels like stone right now.And for this instance no words have strength.So keeping yourself busy even with things that may seem pointless will get you through another day X

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,031 Championing

    @Strawberry1 nothing has to be final,Decisions can be changed.Text messages can be written.We can all make mistakes in our lives and say things we don't mean.If you think someone or something is worth fighting for then only you know.But I wouldn't beat yourself up over anything.Life is all about changing your mind over things.X

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,821 Championing

    My dad said she was sent to me and she was i had a purpose she was so clever so clever I have pixie and im very grateful 🙏 I had fifi from 8 weeks old she had an amazing life I have no regrets not one I treated her like a princess im lost I beleive shes all around me I did keep myself busy for 6 weeks hit a wall but thankyou for kind words

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Sending lots of empathy and compassion your way @Catherine21

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,821 Championing

    Thankyou strawberry x

  • Chris75_
    Chris75_ Online Community Member Posts: 4,291 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1080572#Comment_1080572

    I had no idea that made one thirsty. A couple of tins of something cold would do the trick. 🥤

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Thank you @Jane315STARX ,

    I appreciate your support

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    You are a true star @Jane315STARX

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Your very welcome @Catherine21

    Please take care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,162 Championing

    Thanks for the support given

    Im very grateful

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