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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    @Catherine21 , when a disagreement takes place there are two people in the situation .

    I am prepared to take the fact that i may have played a part too .

    I think i am upset because we arent talking .

    Thank you for you support

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Sorry to hear your very sad news @Catherine21

    My heart goes out to you

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Your welcome @Catherine21

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Community Member Posts: 1,033 Championing

    @Catherine21 Yes fifi is irreplaceable and because she was that special she has left a huge hole in your life.It represents though how much you filled her life.Because you obviously shared such a close bond,you are missing that connection.I think they ( our dogs are still around us when they pass although we can't see them).I'm not sure if you've felt her presence at all? Perhaps its too soon.She will always be part of you because you were chosen for her in some way.I know that your heart utterly feels like stone right now.And for this instance no words have strength.So keeping yourself busy even with things that may seem pointless will get you through another day X

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Community Member Posts: 1,033 Championing

    @Strawberry1 nothing has to be final,Decisions can be changed.Text messages can be written.We can all make mistakes in our lives and say things we don't mean.If you think someone or something is worth fighting for then only you know.But I wouldn't beat yourself up over anything.Life is all about changing your mind over things.X

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Sending lots of empathy and compassion your way @Catherine21

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thank you @Jane315STARX ,

    I appreciate your support

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    You are a true star @Jane315STARX

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Your very welcome @Catherine21

    Please take care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thanks for the support given

    Im very grateful

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Still not feeling good

    Wish i was stronger

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Cant be a burden here anymore

    Its not right

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Community Member Posts: 1,033 Championing

    I think you just need gentle reassurance that you are very much not a burden.We will continue to let you know that you are not a burden.Its not my place to say this forum is for you as it doesn't belong to me but I think it is for everyone in the best of times and the worst of times

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Community Member Posts: 1,033 Championing

    Also I am probably just as stubborn as you @Strawberry1.So I understand completely your mood of self defeated mode and need for affirmation.Sometimes we all just need to be heard,listened to and valued.You can Obviously continue to write how you feel.My thoughts will still be the obvious fact that you are not a burden or I myself for example wouldn't have replied to your messages.You sound like a lovely person who is like many of us suffering in one way or another.Sending hugs X

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thanks @Jane315STARX

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I wish i could talk to my friend .

    I wish things hadnt gone wrong

    Im too blame and i feel so very sad

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Cant stop crying

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Sorry everyone

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Just feeling rubbish

    I will be ok eventually

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 3,637 Online Community Team

    Have you reached out to your friend @Strawberry1? I used to worry a lot that my friends didn't like me but it was usually not the case and I'd just made it bigger in my mind.

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