Mental health

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  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,482 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087507#Comment_1087507

    Strawberry, everyone here likes you โค๏ธ you are one of the few members who never has a bad word to say about anyone ๐Ÿ˜‡

    The forum isn't what it was for all sorts of reasons but I'd say losing Albus only a few weeks ago has hit this community hard. Many others have left this year and I feel sad when I read posts like Zippy's and yours.

    There is only a handful of people signed in as I write and Scope moderators are thin on the ground during working hours; it's not you!

    You have every reason to feel upset and afraid after what you've just been through so stay with us and trust that we do care about you.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,482 Championing

    you are one of the few members who never has a bad word to say about anyone - except for yourself ๐Ÿ˜”

  • jonf
    jonf Online Community Member Posts: 389 Pioneering

    how did you do that

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    I know i aint a good or a nice person @WhatThe .

    Nobody here sees me day in day out .

    Everyone hates me in the end

    Cant blame them either .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    I do feel like a bad person

    I dont feel like i belong anywhere

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    I dont know if i should be on this forum or not

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Struggling to forgive myself for offending my ex friend and causing us to not speak ever again

    This is why im being like i am

    Cant forgive myself

  • Mary_Scope
    Mary_Scope Posts: 4,256 Scope Online Community Children and Family Specialists

    You're more than welcome to be on the forum @Strawberry1, we'll always be here for you!

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Ok @Mary_Scope

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    When i learn to forgive myself

    Then maybe i may become a better participant here .

    Its just a case of when and if

  • rubin16
    rubin16 Scope Member Posts: 1,453 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1087806#Comment_1087806

    Healing just takes time, but just surround yourself with the right support. Having negativity around you or having anyone bully/put you down is just going to knock your confidence and self esteem.

    Unfortunately your going to have to be abit selfish for abit and look after yourself and prioritise your needs first before others. You just need time to heal and find yourself again. Were always here to support you and there will never be a time you're not welcome here. We love having you.

    Look after yourself and take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Thank you @rubin16 .

    You are so very kind .

    I will do my best to take your advice .

    I hope things are getting towards being on the mend for you . Even if only baby steps.

    Sending well wishes your way

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Strugglin to sleep as per

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Not strong enough anymore to deAl with DWP .

    Just not strong enough

    The stress of dealing with them is too much

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 3,218 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Sorry you're struggling @Strawberry1. It's incredibly difficult dealing with the DWP. Have you contacted them or do you not feel able to?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Hi @Rachel_Scope , hope you are ok .

    They said i was no longer entitled to Pip .

    They did give me a month

    Last time when dealing with them i felt strong enough to fight them but not this .

    They scored me 2 points .

    Sometimes these things arent worth the hassle .

    Yes i have poor mental health but its not all about that .

    Thanks for your time @Rachel_Scope its appreciated

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 656 Pioneering

    Bless you ๐Ÿ“ I doubt there's many strong enough to deal with those ghouls.

    hugs to you

  • Rachel_Scope
    Rachel_Scope Posts: 3,218 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    Is there anyone that could help you appeal? You can contact Citizens Advice who can help you https://www.citizensadvice.org.uk/benefits/sick-or-disabled-people-and-carers/pip/appeals/apply-to-tribunal/ . I'd encourage you to appeal but I understand how hard it is.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 8,889 Championing

    Thank you @Nightcity .

    You are so kind .

    They are right though I can feed myself .

    I now reedeem myself to being a burden on someone else .

    Then again i have dealt with enough grief off them many many times .

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 656 Pioneering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1088073#Comment_1088073

    there's nothing wrong with you darling we love you here.

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