Being treated Unfairly

Salaezar
Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener
in PIP, DLA, ADP & AA

I recently had my assessment with a health care assessor and I've never felt be littled and humilated like I did in years! they know about dyslexia and i explained my issues as its never the same and when asked about hobbies i told her no and if daydreaming was a hobby i would ask her to put that down. she relpied well what about reading! I live with my eldest niece and daughter and was asked when they showered and at what times! then asked me if i told my doctor about my issues like shes the first person ive ever **** told! ive spent the last 2 days feeling like im a waste of space and i just want what ever this place we call earth to disapear with me being first person too. i have thought tendencies and have already stabbed myself in the forhead with my pen which i only realise till after ive done it. please help me get this women off the other end of the phone! if i dont say anything and it happens time after time then whats the pointin any of the assessment process

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  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Community Member Posts: 8,807 Championing

    If you go onto the assessment agency website, they should have details of their complaints procedure.

  • Trevor_PIP
    Trevor_PIP Community Member Posts: 1,222 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/140379/being-treated-unfairly

    Sorry for what has happened to you. It is nothing personal, they do it to others too. As Kimi has said, put in a complaint to the Assessment company. Don't worry about either.

  • Community_Scope
    Community_Scope Posts: 2,320 Online Community Team

    Hi @Salaezar and welcome to the community.

    Sorry to hear this was such a stressful experience, a member of the team will send you an email in a bit, please keep an eye out for it

  • Salaezar
    Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener
  • Salaezar
    Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener

    this page doesnt seem to like me commenting . ive just spent hours writing and it wiped it. :(

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Community Member Posts: 8,807 Championing

    As you are writing use the save draft feature as you go along.

  • Trevor_PIP
    Trevor_PIP Community Member Posts: 1,222 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1089073#Comment_1089073

    Thanks, as I lost a fair bit of text yesterday, my fault but if I am typing a lot I will remember that.

  • Doglover2
    Doglover2 Community Member Posts: 435 Empowering

    Same,totally degraded,esp at my last one. Left me paranoid too. Funny that she said I wasn't breathless too amongst all the other opposite nonsense to what I stated, and you can hear me v clearly heavy breathing ,coughing etc.

    It was a Farce!

  • Salaezar
    Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener

    non of my messages are being approved

  • Kimi87
    Kimi87 Community Member Posts: 8,807 Championing

    They are probably getting caught up in the forums spam filter

    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/138685/is-your-comment-not-showing-up-this-may-be-why
  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Community Member Posts: 1,033 Championing

    Its very distressing when an assessments or the assessor makes you feel worse.I totally understand how you feel x

  • Salaezar
    Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener

    I thought i couldnt die inside anymore than what i already was but it turns out i can. i nearly cancelled my entire benefit claim. i dont want there help if they are going to do this to an already broken person. i wish by the grace of god this women suffers a day of what i suffer. its horrible wishing this any anyone but i fear shes going to kill alot of people if she doesnt.

  • Adrian_Scope
    Adrian_Scope Posts: 14,556 Online Community Programme Lead

    Hello @Salaezar, we've sent you an email so please look out for it. 🙂

  • Salaezar
    Salaezar Community Member Posts: 6 Listener

    thank you for everyones comments. i have dislexia so it takes time to write back and in some cases weeks. I wrote a message in my uc journal and i could have known they wouldnt be able to help me. im lost in my own thoughts so im not sure on what im doing. ive only just come round from the phone call and alls i can hear is her voice telling me to get over myself. i havge all the nesassary help from my GP and im being moved to phyciatic help due to post trauma. nothings worked so this little bit of hope makes me cry inside. I fear human interaction which not many understand and im laughed at ALOT for being the weirdo i am. i was beaten my entire childhood by an alcholic father and a nieghbour completed my childhood by sexually abusing me. Im 36 and only just started coming forward with police interviews so im a wreck at the moment. i cant end it because im relied upon by my child as im her sol carer and she needs me here. its frustrating because i dont want to fight anymore. i have no energy too. the only energy i have left is to make my daughter the best she can be before i leave. I have plans later down trhe line for me to leave peacfully and with what ever dignaty still remains in my soul. if anyone could help me with a complaint thing i would much appreciate the help. this isnt about me really, its about my daughter and making her life 10000 times better than whats ofered to her so far. she deserves everything!

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