Scared

2»

Comments

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,965 Championing

    Yes I certainly hate this time of year why we have to follow these man made rules new year start January February they actually say the new year doesn't start till April

  • Jane315STARX
    Jane315STARX Online Community Member Posts: 1,037 Championing

    I am going to try and not let my son affect me although its incredibly hard.He is still not getting out of bed even on new years day!.Won't speak.So all I can now do is distance myself for my own sanity

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 631 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093243#Comment_1093243

    if it's any consolation I snapped out of all the behaviours your lad displays by age 17, I'm not sure his age or how far away that is but I know other autistic and adhd friends who also just got a grip. don't give up hope

    my autism expert who diagnosed me said on average those who are hard work as children tend to become amazing adults and little darlings at s young age become bad adults, although this isn't always the case apparently it's often the way.

    treat yourself to a well deserved rest this year

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 631 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093240#Comment_1093240

    happy new year.

    hope you can relax and treat yourself more than last year, being constantly on fight or flight is awful I know.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,965 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093243#Comment_1093243

    Its so so hard as all you want is them to be ok its so hard when my daughter hit 15 it was nad slamming doors not responding to me shut in her room for hours could hear her crying friends letting her down because we love them we want to make everything ok for them its painful to watch at times but the only way for them is to go through it teenage years so so hard he knows your there my daughter 31 now bought her own flat good job we suspect she has autism so she does struggle she was very suicidal when younger so they can come through this big big hugs your such a caring mum you really are you love your son so much hes very lucky even though im 54 I still remember my mum not caring so he will always remember that you was by his side xxx

  • rubin16
    rubin16 Scope Member Posts: 1,381 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093246#Comment_1093246

    Oh nightcity I only just read what happened to you recently, hope you're feeling better now. Its these scares though that make us think and change some habits we have or need to change for our own health. I also had to make some changes in my life recently so I know how difficult it is.

    Take care of yourself and I wish you and your mum a happy and healthy year.

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Online Community Member Posts: 631 Empowering
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093250#Comment_1093250

    Thanks buddy, hope you have a better year. you're so right there!

    the bp is still high between early hours and lunch but not dangerously so,then now almost perfect from mid afternoon to bedtime but even the higher morning readings are decreasing daily so I think I'm now out of the danger zone thanks.

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,965 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093217#Comment_1093217

    Thankyou for responding hope your evening Went ok xx

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,965 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/1093240#Comment_1093240

    Oh andi yes we are friends without you guys i would have been god knows I would definitely be lot worse i wish you a happy new year xx

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 8,965 Championing

    I donated to mungos this Christmas for homeless person with thier dog for a room for the night wish could have done more so did that in fifis memory its the worse been in constant fight or flight I always feel im in trouble I was looking at my psychiatrist letter written to my doctor I have to read letters over and over to absorb shes put cptsd as well which makes alot of sense the feeling of danger all the time I never feel safe I never feel happy im really hoping that Trauma Therapy works think its a years waiting time Sorry to go on just get so terrified I used to be fearless when I was younger now I hear a noise outside and im scared the thought of another year is daunting

Categories