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  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,679 Championing

    I'm really exhausted from lack of sleep and I have an early start tomorrow for a hospital appointment.

    Take care @Strawberry1 you are in my thoughts.

    Goodnight @Bluebell21 and everyone else.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,207 Trailblazing

    Good night everyone. I hope you all manage some rest tonight.

    @Strawberry1 take care of yourself. Sending positive vibes.

    Good night @luvpink I hope everything goes well for you at the hospital for you tomorrow.

    Take care.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,303 Championing

    I'm so sorry Emilee for the delay in replying to you, I was hospitalised Friday so not been on here.

    I'm sorry too that you've felt increasingly lonely; it is hard to feel that way with four dogs (or even one) but being housebound has definitely brought its challenges, not least because of my dogs. 'Thankfully', I'd sought advice c 4 years ago when I could no longer walk them (vet plus RSPCA) but they were not only wholeheartedly supportive, but both expressed admiration at my 100% commitment, that has never waivered: I have a good sized garden and tbh, I'd likely have ignored 'adverse' advice anyway as I know my dogs best; they've little legs, two are a bit bone-idle and they get a lot of stimulation and are physically and mentally, very healthy and very happy. I'll reply separately in a sec about their names..... that's a whole new story in itself ... 🫠😊😅.

    Btw, I used to have a camera set up and would login to see what they were up to whilst I worked. That was very funny - I could talk to them through it but only did once as it unsettled them especially when I said 'get down from their' 🤣. I could play classical music through it which they liked. My dog sitter came in once a day when I was on a 6 hour shift and twice on a 10 hour shift. I didn’t let her walk them, I did that before work. I changed to nights via Agency when my dog had eye surgery as needed drops every 2 hours that was tough.

    I still have two dog sitters, both come in for emergencies only now and one I've used for 13 years now so known my dogs since they were puppies. Please feel free to ask any questions at all. Take good care of yourself.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,207 Trailblazing

    Good morning everyone. I hope you all have as good a day as you can.

    The weather here today is cold and windy, also looks like rain.

    @Strawberry1 Thinking of you. I hope you have a peaceful day.

    Please take care of yourself.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,679 Championing

    Good morning everyone.

    Its sunny and really cold here.

    I'm having a restful day at home.

    Wishing you all the best day you can have.

    Positive vibes.

  • Emilee
    Emilee Community Member Posts: 550 Pioneering

    Oh @Santosha12, I'm so sorry, is everything alright? I hope it wasn't anything too serious and you are doing better now?

    The camera set up sounds ideal, especially alongside the dog sitters. I've been looking at rescue centres but most of the available dogs are medium-large which I don't think I could cope with. I'm looking forward to hearing the story of their names!

  • Emilee
    Emilee Community Member Posts: 550 Pioneering

    Good morning everyone.

    @Bluebell21, where in the country are you? I've got similar weather to @luvpink, it's cold here, but very sunny. It looks much nicer than it feels!

    I'm working a half day today, in the afternoon. They're the weirdest of shifts because you spend the whole morning waiting for work, so end up feeling like you've done a full day anyway.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,207 Trailblazing

    Hi @Emilee I live in Manchester. The sun has just come out but cold and windy.

    Take care.

  • Amberpearl
    Amberpearl Community Member Posts: 3,947 Championing

    Best wishes and good health to us all

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Sending huge thank yous to @luvpink and @Bluebell21

    Take care

    Hope you can have a peaceful day

    Chat soon

    Best wishes always

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Sending kind blessings to each and every single one of you today and always

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,207 Trailblazing

    Thank you @Strawberry1 I hope you have as good a day as you can.

    Take care.

  • luvpink
    luvpink Community Member Posts: 4,679 Championing

    @Emilee

    I hope you have a good day at work.

    I used to do shift work and when I worked late shifts time seemed to drag just waiting to start.

    I preferred working early or nights.

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,303 Championing

    @Emilee my 4th attempt..... Mr Jones, will explain via Pets Corner thread 🙄🤣🤣

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,303 Championing

    @Emilee Snicket with his 'bessie mate' Mr Jones (RIP 9.8.17), always together, arms entwined 🥰😍..

  • Santosha12
    Santosha12 Community Member Posts: 4,303 Championing
    edited April 21

    Very kind of you @Emilee to ask, thank you. I'm just in the process of setting up a second 'back up' plan for my 'mutts' as back in hospital soon following appt this am. The 'irony', if it can be called that, is that those who let me down recently haven't actually hurt me, only my dogs (not my dog sitters fortunately though, who are worth their weight in gold and more). I'll continue on the Pets Corner thread when I get a minute (or more like 20 mins or 'essay' 🤣, as the case may be, if that's ok.

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community Member Posts: 3,207 Trailblazing

    Hello @Strawberry1 I hope you have had a peaceful day and managed some rest.

    It has been very cold and windy here today.

    Thinking of you.

    Take care.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    As always @Bluebell21 , I always appreciate your kindness

    Hope you have had a peaceful day

    Hope you can have a peaceful night too .

    It has been cold today

    I thought it was only me feeling cold

    Thanks for your kindness , support and time

    Your a very big asset to this forum

    Grateful you are on this forum

    I think its you thats the kindest one here

    Thanks for being you

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    @Bluebell21 , @luvpink , @Santosha12 , @Emilee , @WhatThe , @Nightcity hope you all have had a peaceful day and I hope you all have a peaceful night

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I think i just feel like life feels like wading through mud

    I feel like Im the rubbish person here

    I look up to you all here

    Apologies about my rants

    Sometimes its the only place I feel I can rant

    Please bear with me

    Thanks in advance

    Take care everyone