Wanting to have more power to stand up for myself more and effective

Hello my name is Shola and I am 20. I have talked to my mum and some others about wanting to stand up more for myself and others to the government and to other people too as I am sick and tired of the government and other people telling all of us what to do with our own lives and our own bodies too and this is not right and it is not fair either. We should all be allowed to do what we want with our own bodies and our own lives in this world without certain things being compulsory or being forced to do something we do not really want to do.