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lottie2007
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Hi everyone feeling low today anxiety through the roof and my husband just been made redundant after 33 yrs at same place it seems never ending
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Hi @lottie2007
Sorry to hear that, my best wishes go to you and your husband.
It seems as though he has had a long, successful career so I'm sure he will be able to find work again soon, if that is a worry for you.
Are you currently receiving any support for managing your anxiety?
I would suggest doing things you enjoy, that might help you feel better This community will always be here to support you as well, you're not alone.Online Community CoordinatorConcerned about another member's safety or wellbeing? Flag your concerns with us.
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lottie2007 said:Hi everyone feeling low today anxiety through the roof and my husband just been made redundant after 33 yrs at same place it seems never ending
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Thank you I’m trying really hard will just take each day as it comes it’s worse because we can’t see our family an grandchildren hope you okay stay safe
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Hi lottie I’m really sorry to hear this sending you kind thoughts . It’s hard having down days I have a lot also and money worries it’s tough times and being in lock does not help .
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Yes, the pandemic certainly is a pain isn't it @lottie2007? I hope you will be able to see your family again soon, just try your best to keep your spirits up and please use the online community. We are here for you
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Thank you taking the time to read my message it can get very lonely especially when it’s dark at night I know that sounds silly
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It's an absolute pleasure for me to be able to read your posts @lottie2007, we appreciate all of our users on the community.
That doesn't sound silly at all, the darkness can invoke those feelings and it's quite normal. Do you have any hobbies you can do that help you relax or unwind?Online Community CoordinatorConcerned about another member's safety or wellbeing? Flag your concerns with us.
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Hi @lottie2007 - yes, this pandemic has got a lot to answer for, but I feel it's also made this community stronger, & that helps us all. I know what you mean about not seeing family....it's my youngest grandchild's 13th birthday today.You & your husband, & the rest of your family will come through this all too. Do come & chat here whenever you want, & nothing you say is silly; I think these darker nights affect us all. Roll on Spring!
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I like to knit which takes my mind off things and listing to music.I can cope during the day but as it starts to get dark then the panic sets in some nights I lay awake waiting for it to get light I no it’s all in the mind but that doesn’t help
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Thank you all for your kind words it’s nice not to be judged
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Ah that's lovely, what sort of things do you like to knit and what music do you listen to @lottie2007?
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Something I can recommend that helped me is to close the blinds or curtains when it is still light, then you don’t see when it has gotten dark.
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Hi there @lottie2007 sorry to hear about your husband it's not a nice situation I have been through it myself after 30 years working for same company
Just be there to support him as he will be concerned about how this affects you too
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I’ve made 12shawls blankets now knitting animal blankets with the letter off there name in them lots off pattern so occupies my mind
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Hi again @lottie2007 - I used to teach relaxation classes (I was a physio), & this breathing exercise I still use every night as it helps me to relax & get to sleep. I hope you might give it a try as it helps reduce stress. Perhaps practice during the day to get the hang of it at first. Please see the following link: https://www.guysandstthomas.nhs.uk/resources/patient-information/therapies/abdominal-breathing.pdfIt's great talking to you too!
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All the best @lottie2007, relaxation exercises work well, I hope you try them ?
“This is my simple religion. No need for temples. No need for complicated philosophy. Your own mind, your own heart is the temple. Your philosophy is simple kindness.”
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Yep definitely going to give the exercises a go thank you everyone stay safe an well
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Hello @lottie2007 I hope today's been a better day for you. How are you doing?
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today has been a better day I tried breathing exercises last night and they helped
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