what can I say to help?

@poppy123456 weeks I mean to wait, and my report came back the same as yours not listened to was completly blind sided the women said my search was content clear and stable I cried for 1.5 hours and struttered and nor slept for 2 days from anxiety, so I have appealed now and see what they say but I’m not hopeful 😔

May I ask which descriptor they used for ERM? I get SRM but am completely reliant on my car as I can't use public transport, take taxis, be driven by others, I can't even go out on foot. My 18 yr old car is on it's last legs and I desperate to be eligible for a motobility car to avoid being housebound,

Yes I have EDL & SRM PIP for mental health, I was on DLA before that.

Evidence IS important, because they need to back up that the difficulties you describe make sense in terms of what diagnosis or description of your MH a professional has given you, basically they need justification for believing you. I don't have a formal diagnosis because I refuse to see a psychiatrist but I always send a letter from my therapist so anything you have like that from any HP you have seen will be useful.

If you need to challenge the assessor's report then you need to state that they have come to their conclusions based on a misreading of the evidence or an incorrect assumption, there's absolutely no point calling them a liar or arguing with their opinion unfortunately. You have to stick with WHY the descriptors apply to you and why the assessor has erred. For example I was refused PIP on transfer from DLA because the assessor wrote that I was able to attend an 'Art Class', they based all their opinions on the fact they because I could attend, it meant that I could socialise and navigate and dress myself well etc. Actually what I had written was that I attend Art THERAPY, a proper psychtherapy, in the hospital, ON MY OWN. Once I pointed that out, I was able to annihilate her opinions because they were based on in incorrect fact & the assumptions that she had then made about me (my assessment was done on the papers so I never spoke to her directly)

I would strongly advise you to try and find a benefits advisor to help you with any appeal, your GP should know if there is support in your area. Good luck.