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@SunflowerValley

I feel the same about parents and family (I live at home)! I feel like my parents are bound to me almost. I come away with them all the time on short breaks and things, but sometimes I wonder if they would sometimes like a holiday on their own???

Similar to you my Mum gave up work, there were a few reasons but looking after me I think was a big one.

I'm told I do contribute, if I was able I probably would work as an accountant or something so I do the best I can which is to advise/manage relatives' money and I do invest the family money to provide the family with extra income/capital gains … and also I do little bits like I'm the go-to person for everyone's computers and things when they go wrong 😆

I think it's about finding something you do, to make yourself feel better about yourself. There is obviously something you do otherwise, to put it bluntly, your family wouldn't have you! It might be something that seems insignificant to you like just being there to listen to them or giving them emotional support but maybe identifying that thing would be a good idea

I need to go to the shop now but will see everyone later or maybe tomorrow😊 have a good evening everyone!!

@66Mustang I live at home too. I think they probably like you coming on holiday but maybe in the future they would like to go on some on their own but they probably don't mind.

My dad goes to work and my mum stays at home. She gave up work to look after me and my siblings but now that we are all nearly adults I think she would like to work. But because I need her to look after me 24/7 she can't work.

Sometimes my mum needs a break but she can't have one because she is the only one who looks after me. Which can sometimes result in my parents having a disagreement because my mum is always so drained (which can make her irritable). Which then means I feel bad because I feel like it is my fault and feel like a burden. But I know they love each other and they love me which is why they look after me.

I can't really help them which makes me feel more bad.

See you later!

Morning all.

And hello everyone of course, sorry I forgot to say 😆

Good morning all

So windy and cold here

14 degrees

I woke up a few times last night

Hybrid Peugeot e3008 - already had test drive, dealer said he had already ordered two in, week before last, and were in transit. Just hope I don't have to wait too long. It's a lush car , I find it funny that they're called hybrids, as I watched Sweet Tooth, so reminds me of that, so will have now have to name it Sweet Tooth or after a character from the series 😊

Will be my first ever mobility car 😊

I tried other ones they had, but too low down, this is just the right size, 😊 just hope the dealer was being honest with me about it being here around mid July.

Yes, thats the good thing with mobility, everything taken care of, I don't have a review till 2029 so I can get another car 2027 😊 But will keep money by just in case, may not even be driving by then.

What car do you have?

yes you can mum drive s me around