How to get an adult diagnosis

Dear R.D.Z. I would advise you to go to your G.P. and please dont feel you are taking away from others. There are many adults who have not been diagnosed and this needs to be resolved. Living with Aspergers can be complex and affect your way of life. The G.P. will refer you to the Adult Autism Team in your area. There is sadly a waiting list( can be up to a year) but I would recomend that you contact either Autism N.I. or Autism Iniatitives even though you don't have a diagnosis as yet. Yes you can get a private assessment but it is expensive and not usually accepted by the Health service.. Your G.P. must refer you if you make a request. During my work career I supported many adults who had a late diagnosis and were mis-diagnosed as having depression, O.C.D. or anxiety. Please do contact the above organisations or come back to me if you dont have any success.
Mary L.

Hi @RDZ_photo  and welcome to the forum.

@maryl is spot on - you are absolutely entitled to see your GP and ask for a referral, so please don't feel you shouldn't. That's what they're there for.

I have a private diagnosis (Aspergers) myself, but that's because the assessment pathway in my area is nigh on non-existent and also I wanted it purely for myself, not for any formal reasons (as @maryl says, private dx's are not always accepted by other health providers, although this is changing as more people are going that route through lack of other options). 

My son went the NHS route though and although it's laborious it does absolutely work, so consider speaking to your GP. The National Autistic Society have good advice here for what to consider prior to seeking a diagnosis. 

Good luck!