Mental health

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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I apologise unreservedly.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    My other half thinks my son is a loser . I really don't know what to think.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Everyone has faults don't they. My son doesn't bring trouble to the house or anything like that but as far as my other half is concerned my son is a waste of space 😑

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 15,450 Championing

    good morning @bluebell21 for being the first person to post on page 100 and well done everyone for being so supportive to people in need especially seen as it's a mental health thread.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I would like to apologise to @Nashota , I am a terrible over sharer and I feel really emotional now. I am grateful for your kindness. But I do feel very ashamed. My other half won't change his mind . So sorry 😞.

  • charlie79
    charlie79 Community Member Posts: 352 Empowering

    What is eupd. Sorry to ask heard before but unsure of what medical is

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thank you @Nightcity , for your feedback. I apologise for my late response only I had to go the supermarket. I can resonate with some of the things you explained. I do get impacted by change . I too feel sick and can be sick . I'm not very keen on talking on the phone to strangers. I avoid alot of people because I can't bare to be in their company. I'm clumsy. Memory issues. Don't always understand what people are telling me . Last one to get the joke . So thank you .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    @Nashota , thank you for your understanding I appreciate it a great deal . Apologies for my late response.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Hope you are reasonably alright @Agnia

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Hello @Bluebell21 , take care of yourself.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Feeling really tired today 😴

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Thank you @Nightcity . I really appreciate your help 🙏. I don't know how much longer the wait will be hopefully not much longer. Thank you again.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,727 Championing
    edited October 2024

    Strawberry, you mention clumsy. Oh yes, never more so than when I'm tired in the evenings - I drop things and bump into things any time of day though! As I'd rather fumble around in the dark than put lights on, I once managed to toss a favourite mug into the bathroom as I was passing and carry a tissue into the kitchen…🤣

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Bless you @WhatThe . Im definitely clumsy very much so .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Your welcome @Bluebell21

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,727 Championing
    edited October 2024

    🍓 what your other half thinks of your son must be incredibly hurtful. Your son is a part of you and belongs in your life.

    The old man sounds resentful and insecure. You're not the problem!

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    It is not very good to hear @WhatThe . I am very grateful for your kindness 🙏 ❤️. Thank you.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    I had to have a lie down for a while. I felt really tired.

  • WhatThe
    WhatThe Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 5,727 Championing
    edited October 2024

    I didn't mean to be blunt. It's only an opinion and I don't even know the guy! I speak as someone who disappointed everyone.

    You can't change who you are nor can your son change who he is. Your OH may not understand the reset you are going through but that doesn't make him bad. It's just not good that you feel unsupported at home.

    It is not selfish to be thinking about yourself but hard for us to do at the best of times. Caring for others is much easier don't you think?

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 9,132 Championing

    Hi @WhatThe , your absolutely fine you haven't been blunt . I agree with what you said . My other half just says my son is a loser. Be right back