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  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    A certain circumstance is going to change soon and someone in the close family unit ( my daughter) could cause alot of big problems. I am so very very worried. This is why I'm worrying so much. I can't talk to her about it because her boyfriend will have put his foot down. Things could end up being so terribly sad soon and very stressful

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    I'm so sorry to hear that @Strawberry1, it sounds like it could be a really difficult time for you, but we're here if you want to talk about it or just need some support.

    Is there anything we can help you chat through? It's okay if you want to keep it all private, we'd totally understand. Sending lots of love your way ๐Ÿ’œ

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I never look forward to Christmas always someone who will rock the boat . I just wished Christmas never existed. I can't be excited. Too much stress and upset

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I can and can't believe that my daughter and her boyfriend would want to ruin things . No wonder all I want to do is sleep.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I really don't like this time of year

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    @Strawberry1, it can be a really stressful time, especially if you're seeing family. All the routines are different and it can all get really overwhelming sometimes. I hope you can find some time to yourself to relax when things start getting too much.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I'm so sorry but I don't have anyone else to talk too ๐Ÿ˜”

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I see on soaps even though they are far fetched and dramatic issues occurring that resonate with me where someone or something will go so very very wrong .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I apologise for being a burden @Rosie_Scope . I don't have anyone else to talk too. I don't want to bottle it up . I don't know what I'm supposed to think when people in the family are saying what they are saying. I just wished I was stronger and I'm sorry if I have done something wrong again. Story of my life doing everything wrong. I just know the situation will be awful. I know it will. So sorry for being a nuisance.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I'm not proud of myself with how I am as a person. I know im a loser . I know I've made loads and loads of mistakes . I know how pathetic I am as a person. I wished I was a better person but unfortunately I am me .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I don't need time out . Just a little bit of understanding that's all . If my daughter goes ahead with her idea everything will be shot to pieces.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I can't apologise enough for all of this. I really can't.

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I will give everyone a little break from me . I apologise unreservedly for being such a loser ๐Ÿ˜”

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Posts: 5,399 Championing
    https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/953596#Comment_953596

    I understand strawberry for me it's the expectation to be happy I just can't on birthdays or Christmas I actually prefer to spend on my own so I don't bring people down my daughter is coming she gets it so she understands thankgod I just want to curl up in a ball until it's over and January I really dislike January

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    My heart goes out to both @Catherine21 and @Nightcity .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I appreciate your support @Nightcity .

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing
  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    I know we can't turn the clock back but I look at things now and I wish I had never had children. I never thought I'd see the day when everything could be turned upside down in the blink of an eye . So cross with myself

  • Rosie_Scope
    Rosie_Scope Posts: 5,522 Scope Online Community Coordinator

    You've not done anything wrong @Strawberry1, please don't feel like you have to give us a break from your posts, you're never a burden or a nuisance to us ๐Ÿ’œ

    You say you're not strong, but lots of us have seen how strong you are after all you've been dealing with. It also takes a lot of strength to come ono here and share that you're not feeling good. You're much stronger than you think you are and we all appreciate you for who you are ๐Ÿ˜Š

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Online Community Member, Scope Member Posts: 6,868 Championing

    Your kindness is appreciated @Rosie_Scope . I probably don't deserve it but I do appreciate it.

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