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  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,110 Championing

    I am old fashioned I like to build a friendship and make a connection not just meet someone randomly who would likely expect more than I can give. To start with I doubt Rob said how quiet,shy and useless at conversations I am

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Community member Posts: 2,020 Trailblazing

    I'm all those things to when first meeting someone like you said over time no pressure it does become easier when I was 44 I decided to join a dating site never done anything like that before god I was shocked men was so rude said awful things I got banned I was calling them every name under the sun I was shocked 😲 sometimes we Don't see what our friends see in us Rob obviously knows your a good person and sees you your personality and you as a person it's us that don't when your ready quickly to say the changes to wca are for new claimants which is bad the only way we would be reassessed is if we moved home

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,110 Championing
    edited October 31

    I used to use dating sites, never again. I'm not against meeting someone online just not through those sites

  • Catherine21
    Catherine21 Community member Posts: 2,020 Trailblazing

    I agree I just love my own space anyone in it for more than an hour get very irritated and want them to go always been the same

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 11,563 Championing

    wow 7 o'clock is early for a Costa coffee are you sure it's open then.

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,110 Championing

    yes it opens at 6.30am.

    it's not early to me I always get up between 2 and 4am lol

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 2,829 Trailblazing

    Good morning everyone. Have a good day. Take care.

  • durhamjaide2001
    durhamjaide2001 Scope Member Posts: 11,563 Championing

    sorry I didn't realise it op-ed that early

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 4,974 Championing

    @eeL , apologies for my late response I've been sleeping alot . Things aren't great I'm afraid. Take care of yourself please. Chat again another time.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,203 Connected

    Hi to everyone

    Please take care everyone

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 2,829 Trailblazing

    Hi @Agnia I hope you are doing ok. Take care.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,203 Connected

    Hi Bluebell ♥️

    Thank you very much for writing to me , i started burning candles in my flat due to upcoming All Souls Day in Poland

    Please take care

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 2,829 Trailblazing

    Hi @Agnia Is All Souls Day in Poland the same as the UK on the 2 November 2024. It is lovely idea to burn candles in your flat. Take care.

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,203 Connected

    Hi Bluebell

    Yes im burning for my grandparents and that i cannot go with my family to the cemetery, we also went to the cemetery in the UK with my ex boyfriend who was English

    Please take care ♥️

  • eeL
    eeL Community member Posts: 142 Empowering

    Hey everyone, hope you're all managing ok.

    Nightcity I would have cancelled too - sometimes people think they're doing you a favour but it doesn't. If I get ambushed with anything like that I get grumpy😊x

    Agnia So nice that you're thinking of your grandparents -it doesn't matter where you are, they will hear you and send love I'm sure x

    Bluebell21 I hope you're coping ok today? Thank you for having time for us when you are also struggling with things x

    Catherine21 I totally agree - in my experience dating sites are full of the worst people and they're there for odd reasons sometimes! I'll give it a swerve lol x

    durhamjaide2001 Nice to hear from you! Hope things are bearable in your world x

    I've had another awful day with my work so not in a great frame of mind so I'll not bother you guys for now - I'm in a bit of a hole.

    Strawberry1 I think you and I are in the same boat right now! Let's hunker down and hide for a bit and see what happens. Sweety I'll be thinking of you and knowing we feel the same pain right now, so don't feel alone. You got me and I got you. Keep strong, I can do this if you can, we're in it together. Love you ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • Agnia
    Agnia Community member Posts: 1,203 Connected

    Hi eeL♥️

    Thank you so very much 🙏🌷♥️

    i had wonderful grandparents ♥️ and i miss them very much

    Please take care

    Have a good evening

    Kind regards to you

  • Bluebell21
    Bluebell21 Community member Posts: 2,829 Trailblazing

    Hi @eeL I am not too bad thanks. I think when you try and help other members it can help take your mind off your own problems.

    I am sorry you have had another difficult day at work. Please take care of yourself.

  • Nightcity
    Nightcity Community member Posts: 2,110 Championing

    bless you @eeL I'm sorry you've suffered another awful day at work 🌹 take care

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 4,974 Championing

    @eeL , so very sorry to hear you are experiencing a difficult time. Work can cause a great deal of stress. My heart goes out to you and I empathise with you a great deal . Work stressed me out so much I'd come home and cry and all the other experiences we have with stress . I definitely feel your pain 😢. You have been a real gem 💎 to others despite your own struggle. I am grateful for you supportive post to me . I've not been on the forum much today not feeling very well and alot of stress to contend with. Please be kind to yourself and take care too . Sending kind blessings your way 🙏 now and always. I'd like to think our guardian angels are watching over us to help guide us through the hurdles . Best wishes always

  • Strawberry1
    Strawberry1 Community member, Scope Member Posts: 4,974 Championing

    Rest as well as you can tonight everyone 😌. Look after yourselves everyone and be kind to yourselves too.