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Girls, I need advice!!
So basically I suffer with bad arthritis, and just got a new bf, and he is incredibly well endowed, if you need numbers don't be shy and just ask lmao, my main question is how can I accommodate him, given I find it very difficult to bend and move, any ladies had the same issues, please help a girl out x
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What does it mean that I wasn't interested in or attracted to one guy who mentioned that his exgf
I did struggle with online dating and as well with real life dating / meeting guys in person. One man that I did meet at a social event did talk openly about his ex-gf being his best friend too and that turned me off from one guy. I think that one guy was attracted to me but I wasn't attracted to one guy that did mention…
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I can't be sure if there are problems within my relationship.
I dont usually share stuff like this but I know I am OK to post . I can't help but think something is not going right. I know all relationships have twists and turns . I'm wondering if it's my mental health that's making everything go wrong. I was married once before that ended in divorce I struggled after the children…
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Finding love again
Hi, my ex husband walked away from me and our marriage two months after i was rushed into hospital that happened almost 4 years ago and sadly n9w i am wheelchair bound because of a brain injury and last year my ex husband said i was used goods now and that no man would ever love me now that i am stuck in a wheelchair
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My first guy didn't seem to be attracted to me, but I was attracted to a new guy I met there .
How is it that I met one guy who talked about his ex-girlfriend who was his best friend that turned me off from the same guy, and now I'm meeting new guys at the same social events in the city? My own experience of going out more in real life and how to see how it was compared to online dating. I go to a social event on…
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Adpotion
Hi all this is slightly not benfit related how ever I could do with some advice so my daughter was adpoted years ago she's now 13 iv had contact with her adpoted parents everything been fine ect iv been sending pics of me and my son since she was 10 or 11 anyways sadly I had message saying she's unsettled and not to send…
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Religion - Does it really Count!
Who thinks Religion really matters in a relationship?
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Struggling to support disabled partner
I’m struggling to cope with my partner’s disability and I don’t know what to do. I’m disabled and struggle with my mental health but my partner has higher support needs than me, but her disabilities & mental illnesses are quite unpredictable so she doesn’t have a carer bc it’s hard to know when she would need one. We’ve…
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strangled (Domestic violence)
I met a man afterf years off abuse at 12 then at 29 meet a man, he moved into my home cut all my furnitue up than started to strangle me beat me were my face was int reconised, but i thogh he love me he bite me alover my body spit on me but i still dint tell, i got away ,, i int told no one apart from polic about this. im…
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Online dating
I'm lesbian and disabled and struggling to find a partner. I've done countless online dating sites and got nowhere. I've been single for 14 years and feel it's time to meet someone. I'm just not sure how to go about it. Any ideas?
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Divorce lawyer for the disabled
I used to be a high income earner. I earned most of our family fortunes and now became deaf blind due to illness. I have to quit job and my wife asked for divorce. She took advantage of my blindness and moved away all the valuables at home. I need a good lawyer to protect my pension and remaining assets. Unfortunately the…
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Divorce,disability,health and "fair?
Anybody else in the same,or similar position now or in the past, with being divorced,or in the process of getting divorced,and have a disability or have some sort of heath problems,and keep being told by solicitor or judges in court that everything is being done "fair"? "Fair" seems to be a one sided expression for the…
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Dating
I have been single for a few years since I got divorced I am finding the men online ghost me when I tell them I have disabilities, why are they so cruel? It now makes me think I will be alone for the rest of my life.
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Difficulty using viagra, other solutions?
Hi I'm **** and have diabetes type 2 and lived with ED for some time and its causing problems now that my wife and I have both now got more time, together. It's difficult using Viagra as like all the drugs are not very helpful when demand is suddenly switched on and by the time I get there, which is getting less in demand,…
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My - Ongoing - relationship with the Outsiders & why I mostly love it
I came across the Outsiders Club, a charity group only slightly older than me, back in 2007. 2 years earlier I'd been seriously ill in hospital with meningitis spent 10 weeks in hospital, lost my memory, my muscles & ability to walk. I'd even forgotten I had a girlfriend that I'd met some years earlier in my Uni days! I've…
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Pride posts - Share your LGBTQIA+ pride 🌈
It's Pride Month! Being any part of the LGBTQIA+ community and also disabled brings a whole bunch of nuance to our experiences both in our pride and the challenges we face. I was asked by an Admin to write something for the community about my experiences and I thought we could start a thread sharing what we are celebrating…
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What makes online dating better for short-term relationships than long-term ones?
I'm the same person as splatmate25 users. I didn't want to use anymore. I took a break from it. Starting using the one now . I noticed that there has been an increase in some guys interested in short-term relationships and hookup. It did only happen sometimes on mainstream dating sites/dating apps. I see some of the…
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A discovery I made at age 18
A discovery I at age 18 was I was attracted to transgender females too.My wife knows this and she is 100% supportive since she is bisexual liking women too.I was curious,was with a friend and we stopped to see his cousin LeAnn whom is trans.LeAnn and I looked at each other getting closer finally making out kissing.and then…
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Should you give up on online dating and look for a long-term boyfriend instead of online dating?
In my experience, dating apps don't offer a good opportunity for me to find a long-term partner, since I had a bad experience with them and only seem to like the 15% of some men that never going to have tried much comes to have most of the attetion of lot women and I'm not that much interested in 15% and mostly likely to…
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Although I am meeting more guys and improving my conversation skills, how can I build relationships?
I have been going out more and social events even with my mother still go with me. I meeting more men and have been talking and getting better but I'm not making much progress With getting into a long-term relationship and building relationship. I had used both online dating which hasn't been much success for building up…
