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Deciding to be single and kid free
Just learned one of my mates is gonna be a dad an im still single 34 but I feel like I just don't have the skills to be a dad + two heartbreaks are enough. I always thought it was possible to find "the one" but it's an idea i'm close to resigning, am I right to?
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How to deal with feeling nevous about want to talk to one guy that i'm attrated to ?
Is been a good week this time. I did say bye to one guy that I'm attracted to. I do want to talk more with one guy but I get nervous and shy around him. I have noticed that I seem to be attracted to guys who are shy. as I noctied that I might be getting butterflies with only one guy from adult gaming . Is there any other…
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Are there any reasons why I have been unlucky with online dating and previous relationships inrl?
I been unlucky with online dating and did meetup with some previous guys throughout online dating. One man turned out to be a player and I got turned off very quickly and some other guys did lie about being taken and it was already quickly turned off by guys. Has one guy that wants both a sexual relationship and a…
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What is better way of into a long term relationship if online dating hasn't work very well?
* Online dating hasn't work for finding a long term relationship and my own experience I been unlucky with online dating and sometimes my own experience with previous relationship being cheated and has a previous toxic relationship. I could be attracted to one guy that I saw a at adult gaming and the games I was playing on…
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I need real opinions....
I would like to discuss the difference in being sneaky and wanting a few minutes to a few hours of serenity. I was told working out, bathing, applying for work applications, and cleaning up when no one is around is being sneaky. I feel it's a form of me time serenity, I can play my music without headphones, I can just have…
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Best dating sites for people with disabilities and 22q
Hello everyone I was just hoping if anyone new what is the best dating site/app for people with disabilities and 22q that doesn’t cost to much a month to pay for or free sites I am trying to find some but I am not having any luck could anyone help me please thanks
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My mum has change a some rules about dating that now i only date men with moderate LD
I'm been okay but my mum has change some rules about being about only dating men with a moderate learning disability . my learning disability is one very rare called 18-p my mum was always like this when comes to me dating men with only moderate but I go no choice to chose who I want . I'm always frustrated with my mum…
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There is already another holiday/vacation in my way of dating and getting into a relationship
Holiday/Vacation coming up and it is going to get in the way of dating. I can't have a long-distance relationship and my mother will refuse to allow me to go on airplane for dating, but she is okay going on airplane for holiday/vacation. I'm been okay but I'm been having bit of trouble with some admins from dating apps…
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Is he playing??
This guy who lives in my neighborhood and I started communicating and occassionally seeing each other in September 2023. We both are busy and don’t get to see each other often. He works 8-12 hours a day, and I am unemployed due to disability and I also am a caregiver for my sickly 92 year old mother. Over the course of our…
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Despite not having success with either method of dating, do I still want a long-term relationship?
I only can get to date from online dating but didn't lead to anything but back to start . I have taken a break multiple breaks. My mum will come with me when I date men and my mum will be with me while I have a date. My mum also comes with me when it comes to social events . I am being trying and lot to change things but…
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Obsessive negative thoughts about being a bad person
I’m having some really unhelpful obsessive recurring thoughts at the moment and can’t get them out of my head and am just wondering if someone can help me dispel them, or maybe tell me they are justified, but hopefully the former! I’m having lots of doubts that I will be able to find somebody and that someone with my…
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Double disabled couple
Hi everyone Both me and my partner have cerebral palsy spastic quadriplegia full-time wheelchair user. Just wondering how we move things forward in the bedroom. I've done some research doesn't seem a lot of options in UK. Some carers in past have more willing than others. Which is fine everyone has there choice/opinion but…
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My attempts to meet new people have been unsuccessful, both on-line and in the city center.
I've been struggling in real life to meet new people too and I'm getting frustrated that mum tries to help when it comes to dating but it is going to be the same modern dating nothing will change. I still feel stuck no matter what dating form I go to a social event in the city centre since they no where to go in my town .…
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Finding the special person
Sorry for the long thread, it's just some rambling that I have written, I haven't really proof read / edited it so it might not read very well For the last couple of months I have been upset beyond what I can explain in words, as a result of being so lonely. I get really distressed and tearful most days. I have sort of…
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Looking for support on boundaries: partner vs caregiver
Hello everyone, I am new here. I have multiple long-term or permanent but variable conditions both physical, cognitive and mental health, I do not receive professional care at home. I have been with my partner for a few years, we're both in our 30s no children. I am really struggling with finding the right approach to…
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What are your feelings about online dating being a waste of time for long-term relationships?
I got some dates throughout online dating but not of them didn't go nowhere but right back to start . I met with different men that i met throughout online but none one of men were not that interested and now i been trying to find social events but there is no social events in my town but has to go city centre to find more…
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Dealing with a selfish husband
Can anyone give advice on divorce and all that goes with it
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Following my use of body language and attempts to approach men without success, what do you suggest?
I have tried being direct with using body language and also done approaching men directly but hasn't been successful. I been rejected when i had approach some men and i do direct body language and men still hasn't approach me even i give green light signal with smiling, blinking, touching my hairs and still hasn't had any…
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I want to be able to meet people as a Disabled person
Hi, I’m getting rather frustrated as it’s very difficult to meet people, my disability gets in the way of this. I don’t know what websites online to go too. Dating apps are all rubbish and don’t work. Nobody seems to know, how disabled people like myself can meet people, it’s very frustrating. I’m single and alone and…
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What is the difference between online dating and real dating, or are they both the same?
women aged 25 years old. I kept getting men that seemed to not be interested in a relationship or I wasn't much interested in some men that I met through online dating and some I did was interested but didn't go any but back to the start. Real life dating has been very awkward for me. Sending different body language to…
