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Dealing with end of a long term relationship
Hi all, new here and having a rougher tough time of it at the moment. For context, I was diagnosed as autistic just after covid and although would consider myself fairly 'high functioning' I do struggle, as many do, with change and handling my emotions among other things. So to the point, my now ex partner, said she wanted…
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Testing
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How to handle my mother's dating problems and her preference for different men than I do.
I noticed each time i go for social events inrl i still somewhat not interested or attracted to any men that Yet my mum prefers guys that I met inrl. One of guys that I met did has a red flag already started to talk about his ex girlfriend that was his best I'm a jealous type and I'm not interested in some men that have ex…
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What does body lagunge mean to some men? Some men look at me while I do it, and some men don't know
Dating in rl is more harder to do. It is not like the old days when you met people in pubs or night clubs. I been to some disco and some social events for learning disability in modern ages and it was just impossible to get men to talk and they only looked at me when I did do body language. I had the same problem with RL…
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Are there any reasons I only consider men as friends inRL, but not boyfriend material?
I got a problem with sometimes when I meet men through social events, I don't seem to be attracted to the guys that I did meet through social events. I only just see RL men who are just friends and I don't see them as t boyfriend material. I think talking about ex patners seems to be another red flag for me. Yep also did…
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Hypersexuality
I have just learned about Hypersexuality and due to my Autism I was wondering if this could be linked. Does anyone else relate to this or is it just me?
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Having bad luck with dating in 2023, what can you do in 2024 to be more successful?
Is this a way to make dating more successful and get what i want from me or i become already more bitter? Depends already felt like that last year when was 2023 was one worst year of my life. Nothing much happened apart from going on different dates with maybe different men that didn't lead to any relationship or sex. For…
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With a babyface and dull learning disability have I had difficulty dating in person and online?
I seem to be getting the same type of men that I don't want from online dating and has to be that one player that still ended messaging me from different dating sites . That one that I did reject and friendzone . I got some of the guys that their relationship status is Complicated . As well as some guys that have snapchat…
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What makes guys change into bad men without getting involved or wanting to? Men can change himself
Women with a learning disability I know think to change a men but I know you can't change anything about a men. . Men should only change himself. I have previous partners that did change into bad men or did become bad men without me getting involved or trying to change them. It is impossible to change a man that is not…
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Why can some people make friends/relationships but others can't?
I know of lots of people who are, it could be argued, not good people for whatever reasons ... abusive, rude and aggressive, on the wrong side of the law, or just immoral, but they have lots of friends and even seem to find relationships. I don't like to blow my own trumpet but I think I am a half decent person with some…
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Do I tell her?
Hello everyone I've been in a relationship for 13 years and got an Autism diagnosis last year. The thing is I've not told my partner out of fear of her reaction. I know it's wrong if me to get the assessment and diagnosis without telling her, but I'm worried of how she'll react. Does anyone have any suggestions please?
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Confused
Hi iv only just started a Facebook
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I never bothered the 1 player and moved on, so why does he message me from multiple sites?
I'm not bother anymore by one guy that is a player but now has been messing up on my online social media account is twice from facebook from different account and 3 or more times from online dating apps/sites . One players that did send a message to me was you are busy I couldn't remember the full message. I didn't reply…
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Disability apps?
Hey everyone, I hope your all well I was just wondering if anyone knew I’d any apps to meet friends or find a relationship I’ve tried the mainstream dating apps but had no luck thank you darcey
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Some advice needed
Right, first off this is going to be a long post but I will try and keep it to the facts not and not ramble on I am a caregiver for a family member and do not have a lot of free time while also have anxiety and depression and fibromyalgia, I met someone while I was running an online game a number of years ago and she…
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For those that do not want to realise that we have feelings.
This is along the same lines as access to benefits, and just to say that most here do realise that we have feelings as well. Yet the feeling for someone who becomes ill over a long period is sometimes soul-destroying. The man or woman you once knew is not the same person 10 or 20 years on, but deep inside they are what you…
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What to do...
Hello, The person I was seeing has since said he doesn't know if he wants a relationship with me, but is still talking to me. I am trying to keep myself distracted, but I just can't seem to find anything to keep me from getting upset. Does anyone have any advice on what I can try and do or any comforting words please?…
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Do you have any suggestions on how to break my bad luck streak, whether I'm dating online or inrl?
I'm seem to be on a bad luck streak with dating in RL or online. I blocked some of the users that saw profiles that don't have any bio , short bio , got snapchat in their bio or Instagram in their bio on profile. These are only ones that have a lot of them on online dating apps and dating sites. I only got asked one to…
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Are there any ways to improve my real life and online dating sections
I got a learning disability and women and always did had bad experince with some previous relationship that i did in real life in college and one wasn't a real relationship in high school when i was age of constant . I did get lovebomb and guit trip into trying to get to me to have sex when i was underage and wasn't ready…
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What are some tips I can use to improve my chances of getting into a long-term relationship?
So far hasn't gotten more success yet but been more failure over and over. I always seem to start right back and start again when it comes to dating. I can get men to meetup with me just fine is after nothing comes after and yep, I'm single. I been online dating and did have bad experience and also had bad experience with…
