Feeling a little sad

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  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Your doing so well @punchnJudy64 you have/are going through a lot darling - hope your feeling okay today x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Thank you both very much. Just got bk from work so sat with a cuppa before I Hoover round, which I do everyday no matter what. Sat with my girls(dogs). 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering

  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    I bet they keep you company @punchnJudy64 what's their names x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Big one is Wilma and little one Martha. Both Romanian rescues .  They have needed so much time and love. Wilma is still nervous but not of me. I’d do anything for them. I think he might have done something to Wilma as well as she didn’t start improving till I left but she gave me the push I needed to get out . I need to keep them safe and happy. Always come first x
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Bless you it's good you've got your dogs, they will give you then need to carry on and be strong, x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Yes I’d live in a tent if I had to for them. He’s tried getting my little dog for over a yr but he’s living with someone else now so hopefully he will leave her out the settlement. He’s likely to do it for control and spite but she’s staying with me x
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    I really do feel for you darling, it doesn't sound good or nice that people can split families up like this and out of spite.
    I'm not a pet person but i should imagine that the dogs would feel it as well x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    They would. I’ve always loved animals but dogs are my passion. They are clever, loving and loyal. My little dog was hung in Romania for having pups in the farmers barn and my big one was beaten and dumped.  I suppose I kind of relate and want to give them the best life, I’ve an awful migraine today. I get daily without meds but this one has broken through. I feel sick with it. Not great with Addisons but hopefully it will be gone for tomorrow x
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Sorry to hear about your migraine, i hope your okay.
    Can't believe people can be so cruel to animals as well as people, i don't know this makes me sad to hear how nasty people can be x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    I know. I’m a sucker for injured or damaged animals. Too sad to think of what happened to them too often. But it’s a good reminder that others inc animals are worse off. I’m not feeling too well at all. I’ll be ok as long as I’m not sick. Isn’t life easier without health issues. I need to work tomorrow so I’ll have to get myself sorted somehow. Extra meds and an early night. Addissons disease is a pain in the neck if u get sick. I’ve ordered some wardrobes that I shouldn’t really have done but I don’t have any and my clothes are getting dusty and creased. I have a big guilt complex getting stuff for myself especially as funds are low but I’ve done it now and they come Friday. That will keep me busy all weekend I think. I’m so tired of trying but I suppose everybody gets like that sometimes, I’ve been like it yrs since I was with him but things will get better. I’m dreading the dwp interview on Monday next week. I don’t think I’ll get help but I need to try. I’m so worried about it. I bet most people are though
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Morning @punchnJudy64 ( for when you've finished work darling)
    Your rebuilding your life, so you need these sort of things, to make your life comfortable.
    I don't know any thing about "Addisons" i'l have to google it. Our Demons certainly can cause life events to be harder sometimes, but you will get there darling.
    What's your interview with DWP for, only if you don't mind me asking. x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    It’s to try and get some help financially, I’ve bee Told I have to first get disability. No idea anymore about what I’m doing, only that my body hurts, I can’t risk getting poorly and I’m very tired . 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    I’m leaving work in a minute 
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Bless you - hope you manage to rest well darling. 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Thank you. U r all so kind. It’s nice to have someone to talk to, the dogs don’t reply lol x
  • L_Volunteer
    L_Volunteer Community Volunteer Adviser, Scope Member Posts: 7,922 Championing
    They do give excellent love and cuddles though @punchnJudy64 :p
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    They certainly do. If I had the money I’d live in the middle of nowhere with them. Peace, tranquility and lots of fresh air. 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    I’m so nervous about the dwp ringing me.  They say to present ur worst day?,is that right x
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Morning @punchnJudy64 I know these phone calls can be very worrying, try and go with the flow, when i had my PIP interview (assessment) i found the lady very nice,  is yours today darling x

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