Feeling a little sad

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  • bg844
    bg844 Online Community Member Posts: 3,883 Championing
    They say to present ur worst day?,is that right 
    No, that’s benefit fraud. 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Yes it’s today after work, I’m usually so tired I struggle to make conversation. I should have probably stayed home but I need the money x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Bg824 . Oh ok thanks. I’ve no idea what to do other than just answer the questions honestly. I have good days and bad days so I’ll just tell them that. Thank you 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Teddybear, I’m the same.  I couldn’t walk them yesterday because my spondilosis flared in my neck causing migraines so I felt awful but the do have a good life really x
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    It was someone at uc that said to present my worst day. He could have got me in trouble, I’ll have to tell him
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    I’ve worked all my life so all this is new to me. I feel so bad 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Just to say, I had the call. The guy was very nice. I told him I thought I’d had to say my worst day etc, but now knew that wasn’t right. I was very stressed before he rang with having addissons it meant I had to inject because I don’t have the hormones to help with stress. I told the truth to every question he asked. I did say I wanted to work it was just I couldn’t do 40 hrs. He said not to worry and I’d get a letter in around two weeks time .   I get stressed quite easily since I left him but I got through it , then fell asleep lol.  It wasn’t as bad as I thought. Just like talking to my doctor. So thank you for the support.
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Yeah glad it’s over. Thank you. Don’t think I’d worry another time. :). I worry about everything and stress so much . My mum is the same ,
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Good Morning @punchnJudy64 so sorry i missed you yesterday but i am really happy you got through it and you didn't think it as bad. Fingers crossed for you, hope your pain is not to bad today darling. x
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    Yay! @punchnJudy64 You got through it! :) 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Thank you Hannah and SueHeath.  I told him it’s not money it’s them not pushing me into 40th that my body won’t do. I’m hoping they just leave me to do the hours I’m doing because they are killing me off lol. Anyway time will tell. I’m  not looking for a free ride, just a bit of help is all. Hope u are both well. Beautiful day here. Warm and sunny my x
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    Keeping everything crossed for you! :) Glad you got some sun! It's quite dark where I am and I have my throw wrapped around my legs  :D
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Really lovely here but forecast to get cold later
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    Not jealous at all! haha
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    star starting to feel colder. I love the snow and the frost , not so keen on hot weather, due to one of my conditions, so this is all perfect working weather for me.  It will get warmer very soon. March is usually a nice month x
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    I always feel March is like an October, just without the pretty colours.

    I love the snow too, it's so pretty and it's usually very bright after it's snowed which is lovely :)
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    Magical isn’t it. And frost too. I take the dogs out around 5am and it’s like everywhere is twinkling.  It’s feeling colder now. I’ve had to put the heating on . Sky is still blue though. I’ve been wishing for snow x
  • SueHeath
    SueHeath Online Community Member Posts: 12,388 Championing
    Hi ya, if your still online, hope your rested after work and i truely under stand with not being able to do extra hours etc, it doesn't get any easier with some of our problems. My body doesn't miss work but my brain does.
    Weather was lovely here this morning, nice bit of warm from the sun and a calm feel to the morning. Have a good evening, take care. 
  • Hannah_Alumni
    Hannah_Alumni Scope alumni Posts: 7,866 Championing
    I've been wishing for it to snow too! 
  • punchnJudy64
    punchnJudy64 Online Community Member Posts: 233 Empowering
    SueHeath,yep still online. Just been cooking chicken for the dogs.  Ones a bit off her food. I’ve been resting, can’t do much else really.  I’ve also been doing my house. When I bought it, it was boarderline derelict. I was so desperate though and couldn’t afford to rent. It’s come on loads with help from friends and a very tight budget. 
    Wish I didn’t have osteoarthritis and spondylitis, addissons and possibly around 20 yrs before I’ll need a new kidney. Would be heaven to retire.  
     But good comes with bad. I have a nice little home now, adult children I adore, still have my mum and my lovely dogs . So I count my blessings really. I didn’t tell the man from dwp how bad it can be incase I got into trouble. X

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