Mental health

Strawberry1

Hello @eeL , thanks for you kind message. Things are rubbish at the moment. Don't think I will be posting much . Sorry to hear how things are . Please take care of yourself. Put yourself first before work. TAke care 🙂.

Strawberry1

@Bluebell21 , thanks for your kind post . Please take care of yourself too . Not sure I will be posting much . Becoming sleep deprived at the moment. Very very restless 😕. Look after yourself. Chat again another time. Have a reasonable day.

Bluebell21

Hi @eeL Thank you. I am not too bad. I am so sorry your boss was so nasty. How are you feeling now? It was not the best place for you. Please take care.

Good morning @Catherine21 I hope you have a good day. Take care.

Good morning @Strawberry1 Please take care of yourself. We are here for you when you are ready to post. Hugs.

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937584#Comment_937584

Morning bluebell you was right they did get my forms it did take two weeks xx

Bluebell21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937588#Comment_937588

I am so pleased for you take care.

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937583#Comment_937583

I hope you have a peaceful day x

Catherine21

Sorry to hear this you definitely would be entitled to pip dowsnt matter if you have savings you should really look into that why suffer so yes it's a stressful time applying but so worth it we would all guide you through the process as you know poppy ex excellent at giving advice don't suffer so pls think about pip

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937605#Comment_937605

You can apply online now you could get copies of your medical notes through doctors request for a SARS form you can go back years speak to your doctor that's how I ended up claiming I walked out of a job and I knew I wasn't well enough to work I'd look at googling how to apply for pip any questions poppy amazing if you was going to do it really think about it don't suffer alone xx

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937610#Comment_937610

Yes definitely pip even if you try for lcw that would be good with that need to put 3 months of sick notes but pip yes definitely

Nightcity

thanks @Bluebell21 for always caring,hope you're ok.

hey @eeL bless you, you really do deserve so much better in life.

This morning mum was awarded LCWRA unexpectedly and also her pip has been enhanced this week, due to how ill I now am and the desperation to live in peace, alongside this helpful development for mum, ss ashamed as I am, I've reluctantly finally accepted the offer for her to look after me, so won't when asked be claiming UC.

I just can't live my already pointless existence with an axe over my head worrying about white papers and assessments and all the rest of it.

sorry I'm not around much at the moment I need to get back on track all round, my prostate disease has rocketed off on Wednesday I urinated an insane 27 times, I've asked the GP to consider removing my prostate despite it not being cancer, I think ten years is More than enough.

hey @Catherine21 @Strawberry1 and @Agnia

hope you're all hanging in there

I miss all 5 of you 💜💛

Albus_Scope

Hope you'll be ok @Nightcity please be gentle with yourself!

Nightcity

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937675#Comment_937675

thanks Albus, hope you're ok

luvpink

@Nightcity

So pleased to hear your mum got LCWRA and also had her pip increased.

That must be a huge relief.

Very sorry to hear of your struggling with health etc.

Best wishes and take care.

Nightcity

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937683#Comment_937683

thanks, hope you're doing ok

Nightcity

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937689#Comment_937689

you're really are very special. partners can be like that my last one dictated everything from my time to my money to how long I could give to my terminally ill grandmother she really was a walking deadly nightshade bush.

I'm so sorry you had to throw your job, I know you was suffering, Personally I think this so called boss needs teaching a legal lesson about discrimination, harassment and potential hate speech.

mum is amazing she's had me round her neck for 42 years and never has a bad thing to say about me unless it's in one of our very rare falling outs.

your words mean the world to me.

oh it's not about the urinating being an issue in regards to me as a person it's the fact it drains the Life out of me and I can't get enough drinks back in as it's going out out at 5 times, being high risk for kidney failure I am worried that that will come sooner rather than later with flare ups that bad.

love you to bits 💜

Bluebell21

I am sorry you are so unwell at the moment @Nightcity just come back when you are able to. Good news for your mum. Be kind to yourself. I am not too bad thanks. Take care.

Catherine21

So sorry to hear this it is extremely stressful you got to do whats right for you and not applying for UC is and would be so triggering I personally want to thank you for everything all the support take time focus on yourself glad mum got lwcra and glad you have each other rest your mind and body I think it was weighting heavy on you so you made the right choice big hugs to you and your mum we are always here for you ❤️ ps last note have you watch vhs the 2024 one very good watch all the best resting my friend 🧡

Catherine21

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937689#Comment_937689

Ah this got to me very moving and so true x

Nightcity

https://forum.scope.org.uk/discussion/comment/937737#Comment_937737

💜💛 bless you, thanks tor the kindness.

no I've not seen that one yet.

Strawberry1

Hope you all have a reasonable afternoon. Take good care of yourselves.